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What should I do stay or leave ? I have found emails were he has had relationships on line. Text messages discussing sex. Phone calls to chat lines and even answered his phone and women were calling. Acting funny when coming home from work trips.He has a profile on Plenty of Fish. HELP




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      Marya1961 wrote May 3, 2012
    • Confront him and demand information, but back it up with evidence..men are tricky, even the ones you would never suspect.




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      Cynthia Schmidt wrote May 3, 2012
    • I agree with Mary. Get to the bottom of it. He’s either a louse or he has a problem that may be worked on with a psychologist, like an addiction.




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      Cc-u wrote May 3, 2012
    • Before you say ANYTHING, print out copies of what you can & what you cannot, take a cell phone picture of it.  Then put it in a very safe place.  You will need this documentation at some point.




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      Phoenix48079 wrote May 3, 2012
    • Take the advise of cc-u. Get all of the information that you can. If he is involved..he will lie through his teeth and make you believe him. Put all of your info away in a safe place. Think about your relationship. If you love him and want to save it, you need to confront him, but not until you know all of the truth. Good luck. This is a very emotional and painful road that you are embarking on. I saw my sister go through this...it was brutal.




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      Tuliplady wrote May 3, 2012
    • And before you confront him, make sure you have your finances in order.  Have enough money stashed away to get out on your own terms, not flat broke.




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      Vikki Hall wrote May 3, 2012
    • I can’t add anything to all the great advice already given. So I hope it’s all a misunderstanding for your sake. And if not I’m so sorry.
      Keep in mind we will be here to listen thru whatever may happen.

      heart




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      Marion Licchiello wrote May 5, 2012
    • First I want to say sorry...that is the worse feeling to find things such as that...I hope you are okay and strong. I agree with everyone above...there is wonderful advice from the ladies....




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      Jewelrybyirina wrote May 5, 2012
    • I am so sorry...  Before you do anything hear him out(don’t forget to print whatever you can print and get you finances in order- just like Tulip said).
      Be strong!
      We are here for you.




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      Virgogoldp wrote May 11, 2012
    • Sometimes in life we come to a point where we have to fight for our man/with our man, and/or keep him as is, or cut him loose. Cheating!? We all know that two can play that game, but that’s not what I’m advising. You are an attractive woman from what I see of your photo. If you‘re up to it, keep yourself cute, sexy, softly fragrant and definitely UNAVAILABLE for a long, long time. You’ve got power girlfriend. Put on your armor. Don’t worry about whether or not he’s watching you. He’ll take notice, then will begin to wonder and worry about what “you” got going on. Or, you can go with the Sherlock Holmes routine everyone else is suggesting. Power to you!




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