Don't have an account? To participate in discussions consider signing up or signing in
facebook connect
Sign-up, its free! Close [x]

Benefits

  • okay Create lasting relationships with other like minded women.
  • okay Blogging, let your voice be heard!
  • okay Interact with other women through blogs,questions and groups.
  • okay Photo Album, upload your most recent vacation pictures.
  • okay Contests, Free weekly prize drawing.
  • okay Weekly Newsletter.

+1
Love it

Q & A

Expanding on the previous question, what would you do if you discovered your spouse was cheating?
  •  
+1
Love it



Answer this See more Questions

View All Answers

    • 0 votes vote up vote up

      Cynthia Schmidt wrote May 4, 2012
    • I don’t know what I would do. I know some couples are able to repair the damage done with counseling but I don’t know if I could do it. I think it would always be in the back of my mind. In any event, watching friends who have gone through this I know it causes a lot of pain. It’s important to have a support system around to help with that.




            Report  Reply


    • 0 votes vote up vote up

      Tuliplady wrote May 4, 2012
    • It’s one of those things you never know what you’d do till you‘re in that situation.

      I would be angry beyond all reason if I found out my husband was cheating.  I get nothing much from him but financial support (which I am grateful for) so if I found out another woman was getting the things I don’t, I’d be a plate throwing, headlight smashing, tire slashing raving bitch!  

      And then I’d do whatever I had to do to get past it because there is no way I’ll go thru a second divorce.




            Report  Reply


    • 0 votes vote up vote up

      MaryAnne Carrier-Harrison wrote May 4, 2012
    • I would kick his ass to the curb.. And make sure I had everything possible done before I did. There is no way I will lose everything that I have worked for again.
      I know it may be cold but I have been nice 2 times already and  got nothing. I love my husband but I love me more...I have grown and taking care of myself comes first now....Life is just too short...heart

      MaryAnne




            Report  Reply


    • 0 votes vote up vote up

      Vikki Hall wrote May 4, 2012
    • My first thought is...... Lorena Bobbit was way too easy on her hubz!!!

      Now reality is...... I just don’t know...... And hope I never have to find out heartbreak




            Report  Reply


    • 0 votes vote up vote up

      Anonymous wrote May 4, 2012
    • This is a tough one.  I cheated on my husband several times before early on in our marriage and never got caught.  I KNOW he would have kicked me to the curb.  But honestly I don’t know what I would do if he cheated on me.




            Report  Reply


    • 0 votes vote up vote up

      Mzd3 wrote May 4, 2012
    • I honestly don’t know what I would do...




            Report  Reply


    • 0 votes vote up vote up

      Marya1961 wrote May 5, 2012
    • Luckily, I have nothing invested in Pennsylvania...no job, no extended family, no long term friends..so in my case, I would gather what is mine and head either back to Buffalo or down to North Carolina where family resides..there is no way in hell I am staying here and I would encourage my son to leave with me, because he would hate his father after that.




            Report  Reply


    • 0 votes vote up vote up

      Cc-u wrote May 5, 2012
    • I would get all my ducks in a row, then hit him with everything I had.




            Report  Reply


    • 0 votes vote up vote up

      Msj wrote May 5, 2012
    • have great fertilizer for my garden,




            Report  Reply


    • 0 votes vote up vote up

      Vikki Hall wrote May 6, 2012
    • Lol @ Msj!!! Love it!!




            Report  Reply


Ask a Question






mature content submit as anonymous