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If you’ve been divorced or you are currently, did you go on any dates during the separation and before the finalization of the divorce?
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      Linda L wrote May 5, 2012
    • I didn’t because in my mind I felt that there was a possibility of getting back together and besides I’m still married to him.  My ex found another during the separation and took her along when visiting our daughter. Then he married her a couple of months after the divorce was finalized.  That was the most hurtful times of my life...




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      Tuliplady wrote May 6, 2012
    • My relationship with my current husband started while I was still married to my ex, so I guess I’d have to answer yes.    

      In a perfect world, one relationship would be well and truly ended before another starts, but life is messy and doesn’t always work the way we planned.




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      Vikki Hall wrote May 6, 2012
    • I think it’s an individual thing.... No right or wrong. But yes I dated while I was separated from my 1st hubz. He dated his 2nd wife too.  

      If you have feelings of guilt then I wouldn’t do it.... No fun for you or the date!




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      Tuliplady wrote May 6, 2012
    • Vikki makes a good point.

      And for some people the marriage is over LONG before the divorce happens.




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      Cynthia Schmidt wrote May 6, 2012
    • Great answers. I agree that it’s an individual thing. But, Linda, I commend you for not dating in light of the thought of maybe getting back to together. You did the right thing. I’m very sorry that he didn’t follow suit and agree that’s very hurtful for both you and your daughter.

      When I divorced my first husband I was dating during the separation and I regret it. It was hurtful to him and he didn’t want the divorce. That was in the early 90’s and it still bothers me. I have a lot of regrets about leaving that marriage. He didn’t deserve it. He was a really nice guy.




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