I got divorced about one year ago. I have a 5 year old daughter. I have a decent job and my own apartment and car. I happened to find my old school boy friend right after I got divorced. the fact is he is living in another country way far from mine. we had been chatting and emailing for several months. even back in school I was so attracted to him but for some reasons we had to cut off and I married some wrong guy! we both are on the same boat but we live in different countries and neither of us can leave our country. we love each other so much but we know there will be no future to this love. I have a daughter whose father doesn’t let me to take her with me. I can’t quit my job and family that easy. he is single, never married. we have decided to break up. it is damn hard for me. it’s been 40 days we have stopped calling and emailing and I just can’t put him out of my mind. I wonder if you know how I can make it. I have tried many ways: trips, yoga, meditation, having fun with my friends and family. but he is always there. What would do if you were me?