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I’m curios to know how common “swinging” is in mainstream America among married couples? I have been approached a number of times (married and single) to participate in the alternative lifestyle. Each time I have been taken by surprise and can’t find the words to answer. Am I just being a prude that has lived a sheltered life? Does this lifestyle truly exist?



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      Tuliplady wrote Oct 1, 2012
    • I don’t think it’s all that common in our age group.  There is a couple in our neighborhood who would if they could find partners, but they are both to revolting that they never have any luck finding other people.  Other than them, I don’t know of anybody with that lifestyle.




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      Vikki Hall wrote Oct 1, 2012
    • It’s not my thing and I don’t anyone that does participate in swinging. So I’m not really qualified to answer this....




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      Marya1961 wrote Oct 2, 2012
    • I know nothing about this personally, but do know a couple that engaged in this in their 20’s and found it to be exciting, but eventually the friendship they had with the other couple was devastated by it.  I do not recommend any experimentation like this kind as someone is bound to get hurt.heartbreak




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      Anonymous wrote Oct 2, 2012
    • I was once working at an ambulance company as an admin. person, a paramedic told me his wife didnt have many girlfriends and thought it would be nice if we were friends  he said he can tell we have a lot in common by my style of clothes.  He invited me to their home-I was not prepared, was quite shocked to say the least but she ran her fingers thru my hair and said I'm so glad you are here, Im always the one bringing men home its about time my husband did!  They gave me choices- for him to watch his wife with me- his wife to watch me with him or the 3 of us!  This couple lived in a true family orientated community which I have a feeling no one knows!  I decline-its not my thing BUT after I was approached a few more times while out and about in bars!  Im not a prude at all Im very single but to me you get married to be with one person- you get divorced if you want to be with others.




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