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At the age you are at presently, if your hub or S/O was not here anymore, could you see yourself getting back in the dating scene?  What are some dating options for older women besides websites?




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      Marya1961 wrote Oct 2, 2012
    • I am very curious about this, even though my hub is still healthy and there is no threat of divorce, what does an older woman do if she does not want to be alone the rest of her life?  It is hard just re-connecting with girlfriends, but to attain a male-female relationship, any thoughts?




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      Vikki Hall wrote Oct 2, 2012
    • Geeeezzzzz this is hard!

      Right now I think I would want to just be me and explore what that means. But if I was going to look I think joining a golf league and taking lessons would be good. Golf because it’s not cheap so anyone I meet would have to have some level of financial security. Not because it’s about money for me but more about not taking on someone else’s debts and responsibilities. Since I can support myself I want that in a partner.  

      If that was not important to me then maybe dance classes, leisure classes, volunteer activities, church, walk/run clubs, community events.




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      Tuliplady wrote Oct 2, 2012
    • I’ve actually given this a bit of thought since my hubby is not in especially great health.

      I would date, but I probaby wouldn’t be looking for anyone serious.

      I happen to live in an area with a lot of single men, so I probably wouldn’t have any trouble finding a date.  But, if I lived in a more urban area, I’d ask friends to fix me up. Usually friends have your best interest at heart, they know if the guy is a loser or not.

      As for online sites, I’ve seen the luck my daughters have had and I’d steer clear of the online scene.




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      Kmarie wrote Oct 3, 2012
    • I lost my s/o to death and I have resumed dating. I am enjoying it, you can love others differently, one does not replace but instead finds a new different love. I meet my new s/o at a Church Congress




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      Nita P wrote Oct 3, 2012
    • i would date, i would join social clubs, get out more to be seen, 1 husband is enough for me.  men friends and friendships is what i would look for.




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      Frannie1964 wrote Oct 4, 2012
    • I would probably date but not very often. I would just like to enjoy myself and have more me time to just be alone. I have never lived alone and that’s probably something I would like to see how it is. I know I wouldn’t get married again. I would want a relationship where we both have our own place and spend time with each other but yet are able to go back home.




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      Diane17 wrote Oct 5, 2012
    • Yes, I could see myself dating again.  I have heard of Just Lunch for singles so I might try that.




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