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Can a man cheat only once and not do it again??? getting it very hard to trust my hubbie again He told me only last weekend that he had an affair 14 months ago, the other woman was blackmailing him She threatened to ring me after he finished it

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      Tuliplady wrote Nov 30, 2012
    • It depends on the underlying causes for his cheating in the first place.  Is he working on those issues?




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      Cynthia Schmidt wrote Dec 1, 2012
    • I’m sorry that happened and I know it’s painful. Maybe some professional counseling is in order so you can establish a plan for healing. Sometimes an inpartial third party can be of help.heartbreakheart




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      Marya1961 wrote Dec 1, 2012
    • Not sure, but Cynthia made a good point, counseling can be helpful.  Hopefully, since he made the effort to tell you, maybe he knows he needs help.




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      Denise Richardson wrote Dec 3, 2012
    • If he only told you because she threatened to do so makes me question his commitment to you now.




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      Beawhite1 wrote Mar 21, 2015
    • be careful, my husband also recently cheated on me, in fact i caught him, then had his telephone records pulled after we went for counselling, he still told our counsellor that there is no second telephone number, what a shock i got when i got the telephone records, second number poped up, the lies that go with cheating.  Just tread lightly, we have been trying to patch up our marraige for over 6 months now even doing retrouvaille, which has been a very good experience for us, but that trust must now be built back up.  I am married for 23 yrs this year, trying my hardest to get over the hurt and trying so hard to forgive, my love and heart goes out to u.




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