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What should I do? I’m talking to a man, who I meet only.  we are having a great conversation and talk about many important things for us to have a relationship. I having question about so this, we are both Christians, and love God very much, but It had being three months already and we have not meet. He live 8 hours from me. He is also going some health situation, but I’m getting impaciente about the waiting time for us to meet .  I something feel that I’m just wasting my time, what you thing I should do?




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      Nathalie Girard wrote Dec 2, 2012
    • Have you asked him about meeting? How does he feel about it?




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      Ivegon1 wrote Dec 2, 2012
    • yes I had ask him.  Every time we talk about this, he started to talk about that him and his mother are  sick and need to take care, the situation for him to feel better and able to travel.  I do understand that but I’m getting tire of waiting.  He always mention to remember that God is in our relationship, and that he would makes every thing  work.  this is my fist time of meeting someone online and taking so long to meet. I’m a very visual person and meeting the person face to face it very important for me. I don’t really know what to do.
      Thank you Mavikaya,
      God bless you




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      Nathalie Girard wrote Dec 3, 2012
    • Did he mention what kind of illlness he has?  

      This is just a suggestion but what about you driving there for the weekend and doing other stuff- sightseeing for example- while you are there? What would he think about that? Waiting without knowing is hard. This way if this is not going to work out you can move on with your life. And if it is, you can invest and waiting won’t be as hard.




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      Denise Richardson wrote Dec 3, 2012
    • Girl move on I see games being played, move on.




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      Ivegon1 wrote Dec 3, 2012
    • He had offer me to pay from the trip and get me a nice hotel to stay.  I don’t feel ok about going to him first.  yes, He did told me that his illness.




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      Nathalie Girard wrote Dec 4, 2012
    • Tough call.I’ve been there and the decision is hard to make but I must say from an outside perspective, I would tend to agree with Neicy. Relationsgips are hard enough without complicating them even more. Plenty of nice, religious men out there that aren’t 8 hours away and that you can actually build complicity little by little face to face. Good luck Ivegon! Whatever you decide, just remember there are no wrong decisions, just a possibility to learn and grow.




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