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Inspired by Tulip’s question - do you think people judge you by your looks or the way you dress?

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      Linda L wrote Mar 7, 2013
    • I usually wear nice casual clothes, but I’m ignored because of my unattractiveness.




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      Vikki Hall wrote Mar 7, 2013
    • Hmmmmm......... Linda I am sorry you feel that way heartbreak

      I’m sure I attract stares when I am dressed in my black leather knee boots, black tights, black skirt, black top, black jacket, big hair and makeup.  

      Do I care if they like what they see??? NOPE!!!!!




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      Marya1961 wrote Mar 8, 2013
    • Linda, that breaks my heart that you feel that way, we are all beautiful in our own way and you are a sweet person.

      Vikki, you sound like one hot mama!heart

      Me personally, since the days of punk rock I have been a rebel.  I have tattoos, have been known to wear very short skirts, would dye my hair purple and Madonna was my beauty icon.  I am much tamer now, but do I care if someone does not like a particular blouse that I am wearing or my skirt is a bit high, Nah, I dress to please myself.estatic




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      Mzd3 wrote Mar 8, 2013
    • Linda, I would bet that you are not unattractive...you could post a picture on your profile .

      I think people do judge others by their clothes but, I don’t care what they think, who cares? I know what kind of person I am and that’s all that matters.




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      Tuliplady wrote Mar 8, 2013
    • I am a woman who works in a filthy warehouse (99% male workplace)  for a chain of farm supply stores.  If I’m working, I’m always dirty, often sweaty, rarely have on makeup.   I wear work boots and usually uniform shirt over a thermal shirt.  I would guess that yes, people tend to judge me.  I don’t care.  I am what I am.

      I was in the waiting room at the dentists office yesterday and a woman who was wearing slacks that probably cost more than my whole outfit kinda gave me a funny look.  Oh well.  I’m sure she’s gotten over it by now.  

      The hygenist chatted with me for at least 5 min. after she was finished with my teeth just because I have red hair.  Her son is a ginger and she comes from a long line of red heads, so she was judging me in a positive way because of my hair color.




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      Vikki Hall wrote Mar 9, 2013
    • I’m not talking about a hard days work dirty!! I’m talking about people who don’t bathe regularly or general unkemptness.




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      Tuliplady wrote Mar 9, 2013
    • Oh yes, I know the ones you‘re talking about Vikki.  I work with one.  And I tried not to judge him, because some people don’t know any better. And his family clearly doesn’t believe in washing.  But then he showed up at the Christmas party in his work clothes.  ICK!




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      Linda L wrote Mar 9, 2013
    • Thank you for your comments.




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