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If a guy doesn’t want to go out with someone he met online because he found out she is “a big girl“—- would you consider him shallow, or just knows what he wants?

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      Linda L wrote Sep 26, 2013
    • He’s shallow for not giving her a chance! Sad to know that most men want the slim pretty girl. How many times do you hear them say “Is she pretty?” meaning well-proportioned too.




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      Cynthia Schmidt wrote Sep 27, 2013
    • Tough question. My first reaction is that he’s shallow. How does he know she’s not in the process of losing weight and will eventually be more his “type” somewhere down the road? But, if he’s not attracted to someone who is large then at least he’s not leading her on. It’s a tough call.




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      Denise Richardson wrote Sep 27, 2013
    • Big girl or not! I think most times people know what they want in a mate, I am a big girl. My hubby when I was introduced to him years ago would only date big women so I think it’s fair to say most know what they want, like myself I like tall thick, bald bearded men.




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      Tuliplady wrote Sep 27, 2013
    • This question goes back to having set my little boss up on an online dating site.  He was messaging this gal and completely lost interest when he finally saw her picture.    

      At first I was mad at him for not wanting anything to do with a big girl. But I also know the type he prefers, so I eventually decided it was kinder to break it off immediately than to lead her on.

      Truly,I think we all have a type we gravitate toward.  Show me a blue eyed cowboy who looks great in wranglers and I’m all kinds of interested.  :)




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      Marya1961 wrote Sep 30, 2013
    • I feel he was being honest, and there is nothing wrong with that.  My hub was always attracted to petite, dark-haired, brown-eyed girls and he married one.

      Our son loves girls with honey colored hair, pretty eyes and shapely...to each his own!




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