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I married my high school sweatheart then was married for 13 years all together was bout 20 years spent with him, the divorced.  Well*gasp* he married my worst enemy his girlfriend before me. He is now husband #5 for her. I need help I don’t know how to handle this. She writes me ,texts me leave nasty messages on phone. Calls my kids makes them cry. She even went as far as leaving my kids stranded in the freezing weather -2 below when my daughters car broke down She hung up on them when they called for help and took the phone off the hook when they called. The list goes on and on. How do I handle this? I am at a loss. And then I am suppost to send my kids over their to visit. How do I do that? any ideas? All mine are illeagal!!!

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      Cynthia Schmidt wrote Jan 27, 2009
    • What an awful person she is. And if he’s husband number five I’m willing to bet there will eventually be a number six and you’ll be rid of her.

      But for now my heart goes out to you. As far as the issue with leaving your kids stranded in subfreezing weather, if your daughter is a minor, I’d call child protective services on her. If she persists in contacting you with caustic messages, engage the stalking laws in your area if there are any. It’s important to let her know she may have your husband but that’s as far as it goes. You are not a woman to be messed with, especially when it comes to your children.

      I really wish you the best with this. It has to be a very very difficult situation to live with.




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      Jenni0811 wrote Jan 27, 2009
    • I would use all legal methods available to you...child protective services, restricted visitation, etc.  Call your lawyer immediately to protect your children.




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      Karyn Olson wrote Jan 27, 2009
    • oh my that’s not good...she is really trying to rub it in eh? Not a very nice person at all...does the husband know of this behavior? if not...perhaps he should know as those are his children that she is messing with...




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      Denise Richardson wrote Jan 27, 2009
    • I agree with Chocolatier, you need to contact your local Child protective agency on the matter of the children being mistreated by her and your ex-hubby is standing by allowing it.




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      UK Girl wrote Jan 27, 2009
    • whoa .. you need to report her and tell your ex and keep a log of all the calls and incidents ....

      If I could I would fly in deal with her and fly out - who would know ......

      But keep a record and stomp on her through the law - your ex sounds a right ticket your better off out  

      Be strong honey we have your back covered




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      Lisaru wrote Jan 27, 2009
    • Well all the women in here agree...she needs a good ass kicking! BUT, that cannot happen....you must rise above it, don’t lower yourself to her level. She isn’t worth your aggravation.  

      Having said that, I also agree that you should keep all evidence, calls, texts, etc, and call your attorney ASAP.  Get the legal wheels in motion and in NO WAY SHAPE or FORM would I allow that she devil around your little angels!

      Nuff said. Say it like you mean it sister, she is NO GOOD!!




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      Coachmombabe wrote Jan 27, 2009
    • Start documenting everything ! Get an attorney, and save every voice mail, text message, etc.. This is sounding like a very negative environment for your children, but you'll need proof if you're going to have any recourse.

      I’m sorry you have to deal with such unpleasantness. We often suffer the fallout of others poor choices.




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      Owlmaria wrote Jan 27, 2009
    • Been where you‘re @. My ideas @ the time were the same as yours but My dad had a saying “give a person enough rope & they will hang themselves!” I know that doesn’t help w/ what you‘re going through but from what I’ve read so far, the ladies have given all good advise. Hugs & Prayers go out to you & your kids!




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      Sissorhappy wrote Jan 28, 2009
    • THANK YOU THANK YOU !!!!Its sure nice to have someone to talk to and somewhere to vent now! Yes this is a horrible place to be but My kids are my life and this is why people don’t understand at home here why everything I do revolves around my kids. Or why I maybe buy them extra things, I am the  mom & dad. For all this mess, my kids are pretty well adjusted. They are all doing great in school and all are in sports. They are ok, we talk alot. But so you all know I went to see a laywer today. He said he will gladly take this case. He was very upset. I have saved alot of things from her.  The *itch is going down!!!And one more thing YES he is aware of everything, his answer is let it go, or they prolly did something to tick her off,always something. My mom always said what goes around comes around. right? Thanks again




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      Lisaru wrote Jan 28, 2009
    • Way to go! I know you must feel better and empowered now that you have some control over the situation. Let that woman keep banging on her high chair, pretty soon all of that behavior will cease when she is served papers.  

      Keep us posted.  happy




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      Mztracy wrote Jan 28, 2009
    • So glad ya contacted a lawyer. Good luck!!!

      Calling your kids and makin’ them cry....gimme her number!!  




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      Rena Bennefield wrote Mar 11, 2009
    • Good for you...I would say the same as all these ladies..This woman(use that term loosly) Needs her A** Kicked real bad..I am happy you got some help..let your lawyer put his foot or her neck and squeezzzzzzzz...




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