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Neicy, have you considered writing her a letter? Just express it. Tear is good. Yes, we have our moments. Hugs.
Thanks China. No I never thought of writing a letter. Thanks Shopgilr that helps me a lot i do look over some of her photo’s and things and think of all our good times. I also have a video of her in her last days but she was ill but Istill look at it.
Term she passed away in November of 99’ I just miss her so much and just feel I need her touch at times. Thanks ladies.
"As you open the door to new relationships and remove the chain from your own fears, God will overwhelm you with new splendor."
Annie, I had photo’s of my mom sitting in my livingroom but couldn’t bare to look at them so I took them down. Its been a while since I did that maybe I can try to put one or two back up, I just miss her so much.
"As you open the door to new relationships and remove the chain from your own fears, God will overwhelm you with new splendor."
Hon - I am so sorry. Just let yourself cry. Wish I could tell you that it gets better. But all I know for sure is that there are good days & there are bad days. If she comes to you in your dreams, don’t fight it. Relax & talk to her. Be happy that she came. Trust that she is always watching over you.
Term she is nearby in Detroit about a 35 minute drive from me. I used to visit her site regularly, but haven’t in a few years it got too hard for me, but maybe I need to go thanks will consider it. Thank you so much for the hug too I can always use those.
"As you open the door to new relationships and remove the chain from your own fears, God will overwhelm you with new splendor."
Thanks Bluerose she does seem to have residency in my dreams as if she is my guardian angel in them. I do embrace those dream because they are always good ones.
"As you open the door to new relationships and remove the chain from your own fears, God will overwhelm you with new splendor."
My dad’s been gone for nearly 20 years and sometimes I miss him so bad I ache. I loved him more than life itself. He was my best friend. I cry for him and to him all the time. It’s ok, Neicy. You can cry as much as you want as often as you want. It’s like a light gentle rain from earth to heaven instead of from the heavens downward.
Niecy, I woke up in the middle of night, thinking about my grandmother. I had a few tear drops. I was with you in thought last night, in the middle of the night.
Neicy- This might sound silly, but when I am missing my grandma I pray to God to send a message to her for me to tell her how much I love her. I feel better when I talk to God when I am sad.
Thanks China & Luvin40, I do pray and just like one of the other sisters suggested I will go place some flowers on her grave its been a while since I visited her and my dad which they are both side by side so I think going will help me a lot too. Thanks everyone.
"As you open the door to new relationships and remove the chain from your own fears, God will overwhelm you with new splendor."
My prayers will be with you today that happiness fills your heart & your sorrows will melt away!
I have not yet lost anybody close to me Neicy, and it’s scares me to death that I am going to have to deal with this one day.
I can’t even imagine living normal without my parents, my grandmother did past when I was 15 years old and I miss her but I was so young and life just went on and although I miss her I don’t feel the pain that I know I would now.
It terrifies me actually and I cry now thinking about how I will move forward.
Just cry and like somebody sad start remember good stuff about the person, like times you laughed together and I guess the moment will pass onto the next moment...:(
Niecy - Sweetie, I am so sorry about your loss but you should know that just like most have told you, cry as much as you feel you need to, tears cleanse the soul! I can totally understand your pain as I lost my 6-year old niece on November 16, 2002 to cancer after she suffered for 2.5 years and the ONLY comfort I got during that time and even to now is to know that she is in a better place and that one day when I make it to heaven I will see her and all my other loved ones I have lost again, Hallelujah. I pray that God himself will comfort your spirit and give you peace regarding your Mother and perhaps it may help to seek out a support group for people who have lost loved ones, specifically parents, that way you can connect with people who have been through EXACTLY what you are going through or something really similar. I will be praying for you lady!
Have a wonderfully blessed day and remember that God will never put more on you than you can bare - sometimes we may wish he didn’t trust us so much (cause I know sometimes I do) but He is Faithful. Keep your head up!!
Kim
Hello Kim, I’m so sorry to hear of the loss of your niece I’m sure she was a very special person my prayers go out to you as well and thank you for those wonderful words of encouragement.
"As you open the door to new relationships and remove the chain from your own fears, God will overwhelm you with new splendor."
You are quite welcome Neicy! Just take it one day at a time, and if that’s too long take it hour by hour and if that’s too long, take it second by second and you will make it though with the love and support of your friends and loved ones! Don’t hold stuff in, you have to talk or write about things in order to release them and feel better......hold on lady, it’s gonna be alright, it may not seem like it at this moment, but it will......hold on to the good memories and I am sure there are lots of them and let go of everything else....Stay strong and Be happy, your Mom would want you to be happy!!!
Keep your head up!!
Kim
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