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You can answer this ANON, but what age did you lose your virginity, and was it a great experience?
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      3sa wrote Mar 10, 2009
    • I was two months from being 17 years old and No it was horrible and unexpected.




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      Denise Richardson wrote Mar 10, 2009
    • I was 13 years old in a bush with the finest boy in the neighborhood and I got caught by my brothers friend and he told on me and my mom wore my butt out lol. The experience wasn’t worth the butt whipping.




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      3sa wrote Mar 10, 2009
    • oh shoot...in a bush...kids are stupid huh LOL I need this today...I need to rememember how stupid I was....:)




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      Michelle Walker wrote Mar 10, 2009
    • I was 15 worst experience. I snuck a boy in my room at home while my parents were gone.  The silly boy didn’t know how to put on the condom, his belt bukle was stabbing me in my thigh and it hurt like HELL!  Boy was I glad when it was over probably 3 minutes but it felt like forever.  Then to top it off, I had to sneek him out my window, cause my dad came home sooner than expected.  OMG!  What a nut I was.




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      Ms-kay wrote Mar 10, 2009
    • Age 16 and I don’t think anyone’s first experience was great because you don’t know what to expect. My first was well endowed so you know that frightened me to death LOL




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      Holly Beck wrote Mar 10, 2009
    • I was 17 and pressured into it by a boyfriend that told me that he “needed it” and would have to go elsewhere if I would not cooperate. If I could do it over, I would have said, “No!”

      Even though we stayed together for 4 years, I never did enjoy sex with him...




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      Wpwmn wrote Mar 10, 2009
    • I was 14 and raped




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      3sa wrote Mar 10, 2009
    • Thanks for sharing Wpwmn, :(




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      Sheila Mitchell wrote Mar 10, 2009
    • I was 16 years old. It was a school day so I faked being sick so I could sneak my boyfriend in. My mom showed up unexpectedly, and he had to hide in my closet for about 45 mins.




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      Kduncan wrote Mar 10, 2009
    • I was 13, and thought I was in love with this 16 year old boy!...we were in my parents motor home!...It felt like someone struck a match on my tootie!...God the pain




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      Saylor101 wrote Mar 10, 2009
    • I was 15 - Freshman in highschool - and was with a Sophmore - wrestler - hot guy.....his family had an old barn that had been converted into a bachelor pad if you will - and I remember the song WE ARE FAMILY PLAYING on the radio.  It wasn’t good - of course—- we were together for a year or so - - -  

      I haven’t seen him since 1981 - - -BEST part - not even 3 weeks ago HE FINDS ME ON FACEBOOK - Says he’s been looking for me for 4 yrs, I was his only childhood love, and that he just has to “reconnect” with me.  He is married -has been for 20 years and says I will “love” her!  He is a big name custom chopper designer - I had no clue!  Haven’t met back up with him yet - but it was so nice to know that I was remembered fondly.....from so long ago!




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      UK Girl wrote Mar 10, 2009
    • I was 18 on a European tour with my cousins and he was Italian and older ...... he was great the second time but the first NO... plus he had the finesse to book a hotel room as I was staying in a youth hostel ...




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      Anonymous wrote Mar 10, 2009
    • I was 19, and it was my husband.  Wasn’t our best, but was memorable.  The bed collapsed!




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      Doreen XoXo wrote Mar 10, 2009
    • I was 15 and am still with him 35 years later!! It hurt somewhat, but he was ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh so gentle at his tender age of 17.  And yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  He/it definately was worth it.  I am custom fit to him as he is my one and only!!

      xoxo




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      3sa wrote Mar 10, 2009
    • Sweet and Rare Doreen!




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      Tuliplady wrote Mar 10, 2009
    • I was 18 and very very drunk.  Boyfriend had dumped me so I went home from a dance with a friend of his.  Totally not worth it.  Quite possibly the worst night of my life.




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      Scorpion13 wrote Mar 10, 2009
    • I was 18 and he was my high school boyfriend. Later that night, he broke up with me! It was nothing great...he never even tried to give me an orgasm in the year that we were together. Dumb boys.




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      Anonymous wrote Mar 12, 2009
    • Aged 16 and no it wasn’t great! I made him do it all again, I was so disapointed. However, I was then with him for three years and sex kept us together long after we should hav ecalle dit a day.




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      Smiley1962 wrote Mar 13, 2009
    • I was 16 with a 21 year old and thought I was in love.  I don’t regret it, I learned alot from that experience.  We were together for 2 years.




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      Vasilia wrote Mar 15, 2009
    • One month before my 16th birthday, and we snuck away to a hotel room!  I thought it was going to be romantic and fun, but boy was I disappointed!  It hurt, and we both really didn’t know what we were doing.  Afterwards, I remember running to the mirror, because I was convinced that somehow I’d look “different” and sophisicated since I was no longer a virgin!  We ended up marrying and divorcing at a very young age.  Our son is now 25!




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      Saylor101 wrote Mar 16, 2009
    • Smiley1962 - bet your parents had a cow!!   RE: THE 16/21 THING!!




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      Jenz ~ wrote Mar 16, 2009
    • Can I have a DO-OVER? lol




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      Dmrobich wrote Mar 22, 2009
    • I was 15, I was drinking, and had sex for the first time with a guy I didn’t know very well at the time.  Not the best experience of my life, and not the worst.




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      Ilovelife wrote Apr 4, 2009
    • I was sixteen and snuck him into my dorm room (boarding school). I was insistent that since I couldn’t be “sweet 16 and never been kissed” I WOULD never been F___ed! Found out later that although he had been SO patient and understanding with ME... my room was not the first one he ever snuck into!
      What an AWFUL birthday present. I am SO glad things get better with time.




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      57haddreams wrote Apr 8, 2009
    • My experience was EXACTLY like dmrobich’s! The age, the drinking, the not knowing the guy very well.




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      Anonymous wrote Apr 14, 2009
    • I was 15 and it hurt really bad thats what I remember. The guy I lost it to was huge at 15 years old.




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      Kountrykelly wrote Apr 24, 2009
    • It was on my 18th birthday. I have been dating this guy for 2 months and everytime we went out on a date he was always sexual. He was preparing me for the actual sex act by slowly sticking his finger up my hooha to loosen me up. Finally on my 18th b-day we finally had sex. It sucked so bad. The experience was awful and it did not turn me on at all. It hurt like hell! We did it at a golf course parking lot at night in the back of his station wagon. 2 days later he broke up with me. God, I felt so used. I thought he loved me but that was me being nieve and a stupid teenager. Sex hasnt been the same. Give it or leave it alone.




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      Anonymous wrote Dec 26, 2010
    • At age 16 with my BF first of course. It was so boring and I just laid there and it was over all in about 2 minutes. In and out! Typical teenage sex!  Sex is much better now in my 40s!




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      Diane17 wrote Dec 27, 2010
    • I was in early 20s, 22 or 23 and I did with my BF who was a couple years younger than me but was way more sexually experienced.  We had been dating close to a year.  I don’t remember it being great and I definitely remember being sore afterwards.




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      Mztracy wrote Dec 27, 2010
    • at 18, and was so not memorable. tongue out




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      Anonymous wrote Dec 27, 2010
    • At age 15 and it was so not good!




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      Cmrobert wrote Dec 27, 2010
    • Age 17 and it was definitely not what I imagined it to be.




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      Dorothy L. Davis wrote Dec 28, 2010
    • I was 15 to an $$$hole who had a girlfriend, I knew nothing about. They later had a child and he treated her like garbage while still trying to get back with me. Didn’t happen and trust me ladies, I was greener than the rain forest about sex! ohhhh




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      Anonymous wrote Dec 29, 2010
    • I was age 16 and it was with a friend and it was a good memory. The family was gone and we were left alone.




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      Vikki Hall wrote Jan 1, 2011
    • WOW! How did I miss this when it was posted????? I was 15 and it was with a boy who was 1st serious boyfriend. So not worth it!!!




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      Frannie1964 wrote Jan 7, 2011
    • I was 19 and it was with my first serious boyfriend, the one who I thought was the love of my life. It was at a motel I was living at (a hole in the wall) and it hurt!! but he was gentle and took his time. But I wouldn’t say it was a great experienceworried




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      Barolo wrote Jan 13, 2011
    • I will not disclose my age when I lost it but I will tell you I read a great article in the NY Times about a single mormon girl and the problems she had with dating.
      There was a comment by a woman that I will post here and  how sex can cause you to think there is more there than what really is and the painful emotions you feel upon learning he does not want to see you again.  

      Comment from reader:
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      I can relate a lot to Nicole’s story. I, too, was raised in a very conservative Christian religion, where sex is reserved for marriage only, and even constant masturbating can get you barred from the religion. I was always told that I had a great personality and that it would be so easy for me to find a husband, but while I was very friendly with a lot of guys, none of them wanted to marry me. Like Nicole, after awhile, I just wanted to “feel a man's hands on me before I died.” And so, at the age of 30, I made the decision and had sex.

      And it was great!...at first. But after going out with a few guys and being intimate with them, I started to realize that sex itself wasn’t as big a deal as I thought it to be. While it was nice to be touched, I still didn’t have that guy for “intimacy and partnership and making a run at the world together“, the same thing that I had been looking for BEFORE I lost my virginity. And so, after only 3 years of having sex (and I had enough to know that I enjoyed it), I decided to stop having sex. Having sex still didn’t get me what I wanted. The guys I met were more interested in sex than a relationship. Before, they didn’t call me again because I didn’t give them sex, afterwards, they didn’t call me again because they already had gotten what they were looking for. So I was still at square one.

      All I’m saying is, I hope Nicole doesn’t think that having sex is the thing that will change all her woes. It probably won’t. For women like us, women who for most of our adult lives have been looking for a HUSBAND, and not just a good time and fun, like most younger women who are having sex but not looking to get married, we‘re looking for way more way faster than most guys are willing to give. And it’s not even about the clock ticking. It’s about how hard it is to find a husband after the age of 40. That’s just our society.

      I really hope that Nicole finds all that she’s looking for. I just hope she’s not looking at having sex as the roadmap to finding it.




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      Barolo wrote Jan 13, 2011
    • my apologies Ladies as I did not really answer the question and went off on a tangent! My first time was not that great either. Its complicated!




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