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With the way things are in the world of SEX today I was wondering whether you‘re married or in and exclusive relationship do you as a woman carry condoms in your purse? If so why?
I ask this because I know someone who is married but they have an opened marriage and was also wondering what is your take on open marriages?

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      Denise Richardson wrote Mar 13, 2009
    • LOl I hear ya Teeky,  yeah I'm not feeling that open marriage thing or the swinger's thing why call yourself being with someone in marriage if you're still wanting to have your cake and eat it to why bother? I'm totally against it as well. But to each their own.

      Ditto Chloe! happy




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      Vikki Hall wrote Mar 13, 2009
    • I’m with Teeky and chloestyle.... Married and exclusive otherwise an ax would be involved in splitting us up....




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      Vikki Hall wrote Mar 13, 2009
    • LOL! none of course......estatic




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      Ms-kay wrote Mar 13, 2009
    • I like to say to each their own BUT in my opinion I feel that “swinging” ruins the traditional vows of marriage.  

      However in all fairness they may have different principles related to their “union” which works for them.




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      Wittymom wrote Mar 13, 2009
    • I thought the whole idea of being married was the exclusivity? When you start “including” others, you’ve got a little problem...totall IMO.  I’m with you all on this one...and no I don’t carry condoms.




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      Ms-kay wrote Mar 13, 2009
    • I like to say to each their own BUT in my opinion I feel that "swinging" ruins the traditional vows of marriage.  

      However in all fairness they may have different principles related to their "union" which works for them.

      I don’t carry condoms per se but I have them on hand when I need them.




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      3sa wrote Mar 13, 2009
    • I consider an open marriage to be an oxymoron.  Enough said.




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      Susan Sullivan wrote Mar 13, 2009
    • *adds 3sa’s quote to her wonderful quotes list!




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      3sa wrote Mar 13, 2009
    • Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith have one of Hollywood's longest marriages - ten years and counting. In a recent interview Smith claims that having an open marriage is one of the secrets to their success.

      "Our perspective is, you don't avoid what's natural and you're going to be attracted to people." he says.
      "And if it came down to it, then one would say to the other: 'Look, I need to have sex with somebody. Now, I'm not going to if you don't approve of it'."

      Will Smith reports that neither he nor Jada have acted on their attractions, but if either of them do decide they want to sleep with someone else, they will ask for the other's approval first.




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      Kduncan wrote Mar 13, 2009
    • Yea...Im gonna call my husband and say..“Honey this phone guy is really FINE!!! do you mind if I knock off a little on my way home from work?“....his response...“No problem honey, would you pick up some milk when your done!...YEA!..lets give it a whirl...lol




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      Kduncan wrote Mar 13, 2009
    • Totally kidding, in case you miss my twisted humor;)




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      3sa wrote Mar 13, 2009
    • LOL I think they are trying to say since the option is there they never feel tempted....WHATEVER!!!!!!!!!




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      Smiley1962 wrote Mar 13, 2009
    • Why be married if that is what you are going to do.  I have been married for almost 20 years. I am fixed so no need for condoms.  Stay sinlge if that is what you are into.




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      Rene' Grandon wrote Mar 13, 2009
    • There ain’t no swinging going on at my house. I think that means that the couple don’t really care about commitment to each other. My husband and  are in complete agreement on this we have been married 23 years.
      I was told this story by a friend, about a co-worker of hers. Apparently her and her husband had a three way with there single female neighbor, they were all drunk. The female co-worker was sort of ok since they were all drunk. But the next time the oppurtunity came up. The wife and female neighbor were drunk but co-worker’s husband was not. So since he could get another chance at a man’s dream of two woman at once he took advantage of them in that
      condition. This time the wife felt betrayed by her husband,and was asking my friend should she forgive him. So she asked my opinion and I wasn’t sure how to answer. What should I tell her? Since she already accepted it once.
      ciao,
      Bella




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      Karyn Olson wrote Mar 13, 2009
    • Single and abstinent....I am saving myself....lol...sounds funny and silly but it`s true...I would rather go without than have meaningless sex...at this rate...I am probably a born again Virgin or a Nun...lol (no offense to anyone)




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      Jenz ~ wrote Mar 13, 2009
    • I think it’s wierd that doing that has almost become a trend of sorts.
      I don’t believe there are marriage vows written anywhere that include a 3‘rd wheel.
      Can you picture that? pffft... “Do YOU JOE, take MARY to be your lawfully wedded wife, NOT forsaking her for all others...”
      Gimme a break.

      And Vikki- Split us UP! HAHAHAHAHA THAT was funny!

      No I’m not married.
      When I am, we won’t be inviting others into the boudoir, thank you very much.  

      And no, I don’t carry condoms. They aren’t needed at this time. Single!




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      Jenz ~ wrote Mar 13, 2009
    • I don’t believe the woman that is truly okay with watching her man with another woman has been born yet. I do believe if she says she digs it, she’s probably doing it for some seriously wrong reasons.
      No thanks!




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      Nita P wrote Jan 24, 2012
    • i have what would be called an open marriage.  i have no inclination to jump from bed to bed.  i would like an intimate friend, my husband would know it would not be a secret.  sex to me is not everything despite the fact that i like lots of it.  i also prefer companionship, time together and being a couple with another.




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