I am going through perrimenopause (Sp), I am not sure if what I am feeling is normal. I feel that I have completely lost my womanhood. I don’t have any desire for sex, and I feel like if I did I wouldn’t be able to... I have my period literally once a year now and seem to be more emotional; however I have not had any experiences with hot/cold flashes. Can anyone tell me if what I am feeling is normal? I don’t like it, and I don’t know how to cope with it.