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Probably not, usually when they cheat one time they will continue to cheat.
I am trying to forgive a cheating spouse at this time, we are going thru counseling and I got my book out, has anyone read “The Power of a Praying Wife“? It is awesome..if I did not have this book, we would be divorced.
Forgiveness is a difficult thing. I too am trying to forgive a cheating spouse. The difficulty for me is the fear that in forgiving him he will believe that I have forgotten the hurt his actions caused. However, I still love him and know he is worth another chance. I just have difficulty in completely forgiving his actions
Any suggestions???
Sure....but I’d be done with him. I don’t think I could live with the worry that it could happen again.
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Yes I would if he told me why he did it. As if I found out it was because he could get from her something I was unwilling or unable to give him that he wanted then fine I would have no problem with it if he promised me that he still loved me and was only getting that one thing from her. For instance I know of a man who’s wife has not kissed him in years well he has found someone who will give him what he is missing from his life. He is happy she is happy and so no harm in it as far as I can see. They know if his wife finds out it will stop immediately but other than that. They are having fun together. Its not gone all the way even though I know he would but he is fine with it not happening and enjoying each others company instead.
Even if I could forgive him, I don’t think I could never trust him again. We wouldn’t have much of a marriage without trust. Don’t misunderstand, I don’t look down on others who are able to stay in the marriage, and get past it. I guess I just don’t think I could do it. You never know until you‘re in the situation.
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