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I am a mom with 3 girls. 9, 19, &25. The 19 year old is bi-polar among other things. She is on drugs, had a baby in Jan. and is preg. again. She has terrible rages. and we fear for the safety of the baby. She lives about 4 hours away from here. the 25 year old is practicing lesbianism and lost her 3 children and her actions show me that she doesn’t want them back. They are with the father. Neither one of them connected with me on Mother’s day. They hate me because I speak my mind and tell them what i think. What do I do?

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      Mztracy wrote May 16, 2009
    • If the 19 yr old is putting her baby in danger, contact authorities. That’s about all you can do there.

      For the 25 yr old, it is sad that it seems she does not want her babies. At least they can be with their dad. Not much you can do, but be there if the walls come crashing down.

      They are adults...




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      Susan Dahringer wrote May 16, 2009
    • Hi codequeen

      Like ms.tracy said they‘re adults.But they should own their own responsibility...Do what’s in the best interest of your grandchildren...

      Susan




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      Denise Richardson wrote May 16, 2009
    • MzTracy, took the words out my mouth you have to allow them to live there lives, their grown adults and have chosen their own paths but for the sake of the children do call the authorities if necessary. You still have your other daughter at home to deal with pray for all you children and if the walls do tumble in the older two lives be there for them no matter what their still your children. God Bless you and your family.

      "As you open the door to new relationships and remove the chain from your own fears, God will overwhelm you with new splendor."




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      Marionjayne wrote May 16, 2009
    • I agree with the ladies. My prayers are with you and your family.




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      Anne E wrote May 16, 2009
    • Is your 19 year old receiving medication for her bi-polar disorder (maybe not now because she’s pregnant)?  It sounds like she needs help. She’s gonna have a really hard time raising 2 kids the way she is now.

      Not much you can do about your oldest daughter.  Hopefully you can still be active in your grandchildren’s lives.  Is their dad a responsible father?




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      Denise Herich wrote May 18, 2009
    • I’m glad they are not living with you, so that your 9 year old has a chance of being a happy productive person not influenced by her two older sisters.




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