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Have any of ever been through an abortion? If so, How do you feel about it today?

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      Janet Wooley wrote Jul 9, 2009
    • I have not, I have a really good friend Nina, her and I found out at the same time we were pregnant. I was happy she was too, alittle scared but happy. We spent alot of time together. She came to work with a black eye and a total wreck. I told her to go home and she said she couldn’t. We went and talked privately and she told me her bf said she had to get an abortion or he would break up with her. She was so confussd and I knew I just needed to be there for her no matter what choice she made. Well bf pressured her to the point she agreed to have one. She asked me to go with her and I said I would, I loved my friend.Excuse me I am loosing it. Everytime I think of her I cry. That was the worst day of my life honest, It marked the day I lost a good friend. She was NEVER the same. I understood how she felt and it hurt our relationship because me and my child remind her of the child she should have had. She can not look at my son w/out crying, it causes her so much pain.Even years later I bumped into her and she just lost it the minute she saw my son. She had to leave and I have never seen her again. I feel so bad sometimes because I second guess what I should have done.Maybe encouraged her to not go thru with it? I don’t know.




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      Jenni0811 wrote Jul 10, 2009
    • I haven’t, but had a GF in high school who did. I have lost touch with her, but I think of her and that incident often. It haunts me and it wasn’t even my baby.




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      Marie66 wrote Jul 10, 2009
    • I haven’t, and I don’t know anybody that has. But if I was to get preganant at this time in my life I too would carry it to full term.. I couldn’t have an abortion..




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      La Shawn Henderson wrote Jul 10, 2009
    • Yes, I had an abortion when I was about 25. I was a single mother with a 2 year old daughter at the time. I was on welfare and really struggling. It was a very hard decision and I cries so much after that. I felt the lose and I grieved the child because I knew it wasn’t the child’s fault it was my fault. I vowed never to do it again. I know how to get pregnant and I know how not to get pregnant. At the time that I had the abortion I know it was the best decision for that time. I think about it sometimes but I’ve made peace with myself about it and it doesn’t bother me anymore.




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      Janet Wooley wrote Jul 10, 2009
    • Terma,
      No my friend left the jerk shortly after that and went home to family. I really did not take what happened to me personally as I really did know what it did to her. I could feel her pain. I was totally convinced that it destroys 2 lives after that experience. Poor thing. I hope she got some kind of counseling.




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      Deb Darby wrote Jul 10, 2009
    • If you or anyone you know is struggling with having made the choice to abort, help and counseling is available at any CareNet Pregnancy Center. www.care-net.org




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      Anonymous wrote Jul 10, 2009
    • yes. forgiven, forgotten, free from guilt.




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