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Hi, I need wise opinions! men and woman welcome. The email below was found in my boyfriends emails. Yes, i was snooping, stupid me. he has been going on the boys trip for 3 years now and every year I have a problem w/it. It was validified w/this email, written in ‘06. He has been buddy’s w.these guys for 20+ years and the guy that wroed it is a dog..they are all married w/kids. They have been there for my bf through some of his darkest hours so I can understand he loyalty to them. he also swears to God and his kid, that no woman have ever been part of their trips, they are all 40 something. I have been w/him giong on our 5th year and now feel like I am seeing colors I have not seen before(I found other incriminating emails) Please advice!! the trip is this month. Thank you!!
I have blocked out names and places in case his poor wife sees this, doubt it but I don’t want to be responsible for their issues.

As I returned from my vacation in --- today, I
realized that one thing was missing from our nearly
perfect weekend...hot f‘n pu**y. I was hanging out at
---- ---- yesterday and was surrounded, literally,
but dozens of smoking hot college and 30ish
MILF's...oh the days of just chillin at ----- ----.

Well needless to say, maybe, just maybe we should try
--- for one of our annual Dude's trips...hang all
day on the lake and at the -- and you know some
things are legal in—, that aren’t in—.

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      Linni wrote Aug 5, 2009
    • im with you on this.. what is it?




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      Vikki Hall wrote Aug 5, 2009
    • It looks to me like someone being stupid!




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      Anonymous wrote Aug 5, 2009
    • alot of what I wrote got cut off? i found an email in my bf (of 4 12 yrs)it’s from his friend that he goes away w/once a year. There are abt 12 to 15 guys that go, all about 40 and ALL married. Totally my fault for snooping but i have had my concerns about this trip every year then I find that email. My bf swears to god and on his kid that no woman are ever a part of thier weekend. The email (above that the dog wrote) to my bf and the other guys starts off w/*AS I RETURNED FROM*
      Not sure how to handle this and te trip is in a week..




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      Angelcart wrote Aug 5, 2009
    • Look’s like someone has some SERIOUS issues if you ask me.  I believe they are mocking the trip the ladies are taking to Vegas.

      Ignore, ignore, ignore......but’s it hard to when someone is being a real asshole.




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      Angelcart wrote Aug 5, 2009
    • I say mocking the Vegas trip because “it” brings up an “annual dude trip“.




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      Angelcart wrote Aug 5, 2009
    • Right on Term, Right on!  LOL




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      Mab85 wrote Aug 5, 2009
    • i just wrote another response?? My letter was cut off.. I am looking for advice from a few wise woman and was hoping to find that here. An obvious mistake. Sorry to have bothered you.




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      Angell VillafaƱe wrote Aug 5, 2009
    • Mab85 there has been some nonsense here lately with Anon postings and I think the ladies are just being cautious. I don’t think anyone meant to offend you...and perhaps they didn’t read your 2nd response. frown

      My advice is take your BF’s word for it for now but keep your eyes open. Until you have proof there isn’t much you can do. I know how you feel though...I would be uneasy about it too esp after reading something like that. Perhaps his friend is just a bit immature.




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      Mab85 wrote Aug 5, 2009
    • Thanks Angell,
      I wrote it anonymously in case his wife is on the site. I feel terrible for her as he is a dog and has done so much more then just that email...and, there were other things I found on my bf’s emails. My fault for snooping!! I really appreciate your response as my friends have also adviced me to do the same. I am hurt and angry and am really trying to get past this so we can marry next year. We have had so many things happen in the 4 1/2 years we have known one another and he is the Love of my life. It is a difficult time and I guess we just take it day by day.




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      UK Girl wrote Aug 5, 2009
    • Mab85 people may not have understood the initial posting hence the response.

      But I think yes you’ll have to take your boyfriends word until you have proof ...... or I would email back the person and say hey whats this and sign your name ....




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      Angelcart wrote Aug 5, 2009
    • Mab, yes due to yesterday’s bs if you would have posted your original question with your name you would not have received the first type of responses you did.




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      Angell VillafaƱe wrote Aug 5, 2009
    • Mab don’t feel that just because your bf’s friend is a dog that your bf is that way also. We can’t blame our significant others for the ways their buddies are. If you asked your bf about it and he said there is nothing to it then take him at his word. Don’t mistrust him until you have a valid reason to. Perhaps you may not trust him as much as you think you do hence the snooping. If you are planning on getting married there has to be 100% trust on both parts. Good luck Mab...hope it all works out for you! happy




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      Mab85 wrote Aug 5, 2009
    • I’m trying. Thank you all for the great advice. I guess sometimes when you have to sit w/something w/o a lot of advice it becomes bigger then it really is..it helps to hear thoughts from other people that are not as close to either of us :)




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      Jenz ~ wrote Aug 6, 2009
    • Raising an eyebrow..

      Why is snooping going on in the 1st place?  

      No trust, no deal. No exception.




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      Tina Sickinger wrote Aug 6, 2009
    • I agree about the trust thing. I question why you felt the need to snoop in the first place. Trust is of utmost importance in a relationship. You must wonder if you can trust him to begin with or you wouldn’t have felt the need to get into his emails.
      Just my opinion. worried




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