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Do you really want to know when or if your mate is cheating on you? Would you want those who do know to tell you, really?
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      Mzd3 wrote Dec 6, 2009
    • Yes, without a doubt .




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      Lisaregenia wrote Dec 6, 2009
    • I would want to know.




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      Venus 7000 wrote Dec 6, 2009
    • My girlfriends and I talked about this option several years ago.  All  said yes, they would want to know.  I said only if you are absolutely sure that he is cheating.  I don’t want to have to deal with the unnecessary stress of an unconfirmed rumor.  Infidelity is a bitch. It destroys you in so many ways.




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      Cynthia Schmidt wrote Dec 6, 2009
    • Just for the health risks alone I’d want to know. And, if I have something to do with him pulling away I’d want to know so there’s an opportunity to save the marriage.




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      Frannie1964 wrote Dec 6, 2009
    • Yes I would want to know and If my friends wanted to tell me they can.




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      Mz. Queen wrote Dec 6, 2009
    • Being that I always seem to know or find out on my own I’m not sure if I would want anyone except a PI to tell me.




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      Doreen XoXo wrote Dec 6, 2009
    • I definately would want to know.  More on my side in a courtroom!!!

      xoxo




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      Tuliplady wrote Dec 7, 2009
    • No to both questions.  At a couple points in my first marriage I was pretty sure my husband was cheating on me, but never sure.  Since I didn’t know for sure, I didn’t have to actually face the fact.  

      Current hubby, I wouldn’t want to know because it would absolutely devastate me and then I’d have to go kill the other woman, and it’d all just be too messy.

      Tulip




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      Betspussl wrote Dec 7, 2009
    • I HAVE HAD THAT PHONE CALL AT WORK BEFORE FROM A FRIEND,EXPLAINING TO ME THAT MY HUSBAND WAS VISITING SOMEONE THAT WE ALL NEW IN A STORE THAT SHE WORKED IN ABOUT 25 MILES AWAY.I KNEW INSTANTLY SOMETHING WASNT RIGHT.I AM THE KIND OF WOMAN THAT JUST SAYS WHAT I HAVE TO SAY,I DON‘T BEAT AROUND THE BUSH AND MY INSTINCTS ARE USUALLY RIGHT.I CONFRONTED HIM,HE DENIED IT,AND THEN I THREATENED TO CALL THE OTHER WOMAN AND ASK HER MYSELF.THEN HE CONFESSED.
      WE HAD JUST GOTTEN BACK TOGETHER FROM A LONG SEPERATION AND WE WERE IN MARRIAGE COUNSELING WHEN HE HAD THIS AFFAIR.HE WAS ACTUALLY IN THE STORE VISITING HER ALMOST A YEAR LATER AFTER HE HAD SLEPT WITH HER.SHE WAS APPARENTLY ANNOYED WITH HIM,THAT HE USED HER FOR A ONE NIGHT STAND AND THEN SHOWED UP A YEAR LATER TO SEE HOW SHE HAS BEEN.SHE THEN LET IT SLIP TO SOME MUTUAL FRIENDS SO THAT I WOULD FIND OUT.
      I DEFINATLEY WOULD WANT TO KNOW.ONCE YOUR PARTNER SLEEPS WITH SOMEONE ELSE IT IS JUST TO HARD TO TRUST THEM AFTER THAT.IF YOU DON‘T HAVE TRUST YOU DON‘T HAVE ANYTHING.




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      Angell Law wrote Dec 9, 2009
    • I would absolutely want to know! As stated from the other women...there are health risks involved but also I do not want to share my man with anyone else. If you see my man with another woman girlfriends then please let me know!




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