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Can I ever really trust him again?
I love my husband with all my heart, but after his affair, the trust is not just the same. It’s like the truth of the many lies he told reveals itself when unexpected, even now after the affair is over and done with. I know he regrets what he has done, I can feel it. We have a great relationship, even better than before if you ask. We get along, we are very attracted to each other, we have a great family, we have an awesome time together. He’s always trying to make sure I feel comfortable. Will I ever trust the way I did again?
Yes you will trust him again! Time does heal the pain and love will get you to the point of trust. You have to forgive not forget but forgive in order to move on and trust again. I know what you are going through. I went throught the same thing with my husband. I chose to forgive but not forget. It has been 11 years since that time of darkness in my marriage and the marriage is better now than ever. I do trust him 200% because he know how much he hurt me and what it would do to me to go down that road. You must forgive in order to have a chance of working out but I can guarentee you that you will never forget.