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I was drinking one night, and I called my sister, I completley let go of my fears, my thoughts, my stresses and my imagination. Much of which the drinks brought out. She recored the call, and she is posting everywhere, I told her If I heard it out and about, because this was one of my fears that was happening while I was told it was my imagination. It obviously is not my imagination, and I have not spoke to her since. I was cruel with some of the things that were said, and because I was cruel I do not contact anyone. The telephone recordings have been going on for years, stalking as a matter of fact.




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      Anonymous wrote Feb 14, 2010
    • You’ve heard of the expression, “Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me?” If this has been going on for years, why would you call her when you know she does this?




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      Marya1961 wrote Feb 15, 2010
    • Wow!!..shame on her..if it were me, no contact with her by phone at all, limit the time that is spent together and recommend therapy for her as she clearly has issues.




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      Angelcart wrote Feb 15, 2010
    • Telephones should have breathalizers on them.  I would just tell her your sorry for the mean words but at the same time it was the booze talking.  Let her know how much she’s hurt you.  Very immature to tape and play for someone else.  I seriously doubt the police would do anything about it because your sister’s and they won’t take that as a “high priority“.  Good luck........and hopefully you won’t “drink and dial” anymore.




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      Megan50 wrote Feb 15, 2010
    • Toxic family is the worst kind of poison.  I am so sorry you have this toxic sister. A few points....it is not illegal to record a conversation or phone call because only 1 person has to consent to the recording, and so that is the person doing the recording.  Trying to get your sister to therapy is futile.  Abusive, sneaky, cruel people hardly ever think they are in the wrong.  Sounds like you are the scapegoat, maybe the “identified patient“.  The thing to do is for you to find a good therapist so you can work through the attachment to this person who treats you so badly.  You don’t need to continue to be her scape goat, or the defenseless victim she repeatedly pokes with a stick.  I   would urge you to get a good, supportive therapist ASAP.  And take Angelcart’s advice.  Don’t drink and dial.




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      Vikki Hall wrote Feb 15, 2010
    • What is the question? Your sister definitely was out of line but there’s nothing you can do now! So shake it off and move on. You did nothing wrong when you exposed your inner self to someone you thought you could trust. The burden is on her and her behavior not you!




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