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If you went on an AMAZING first date with a guy-he calls you next day he cant stop thinking about you and asked you to dinner that night and you said no its  too soon.  How long would you put him off because you are afraid it will be over if you had sex too soon and he expects it on the next date EVEN thought I did not agree about a time table-I said I dont want a boyfriend but I want to go out a few dates at least.  I want to see him asap but I told him 1 1/2 wks.  Would you call and say lets get together NOW or wait it out to see if his interest is still there?




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      Msj wrote Mar 31, 2010
    • go if you feel like it but don’t have sex just because he expects it.




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      (華娃娃) ChinaDoll wrote Mar 31, 2010
    • Men like to hunt.  You too easy to accept will lead one onto another.  Say it kindly to him that you are busy for the next few days (make up excuse like friends visiting you from out of town) and hint that you would like to go to dinner the next week so you are not cutting yourself off.

      IMHO... In My Humble Opinion.




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      Kyah wrote Apr 1, 2010
    • Just because he’s smitten, doesn’t mean you are. Take your time and pace it all week by week; if he’s that impatient, he may have ulterior motives. What’s the rush? Spend some time to get to know each other first, build up a friendship. Sex is so overrated and in this day and age, can be hazardous to your health.




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      Angelcart wrote Apr 1, 2010
    • I’m a bit confused on the having sex if you went to dinner again the next night.  Was that brought up???  If you had an amazing time with him then I would go.  You don’t have to put out if you don’t want to.  If he expects it and you don’t and he doesn’t call back then, count your blessings!




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      Anonymous wrote Apr 1, 2010
    • Angelcart

      Yes it was brought up he wanted to have sex the night we were together-I said no so he wanted to get together for dinner the next night I said too soon - ONE because I believe he wanted to finish what did NOT happen and TWO because two days in a row seems a bit much.   I put the question out there for diff. perspectives from people I dont know.  Close friends ALL said go for it- have sex/fun it has been way too long being celibate, not getting any younger!!




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      Cristina Corral wrote Apr 1, 2010
    • I would not give in to having sex if you don’t want to.  You can do that but don’t expect that he will be calling you soon after.  After they get their prey, they usually move on.  If he was seriousl interested in you he would not be asking you this at all.




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      VICKY CORYEA wrote Apr 3, 2010
    • I would certainly meet for dinner............JUST DINNER




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