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What are the signs that he is Mr. Wrong?

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      Maryann Rhodey wrote Apr 10, 2010
    • When he doesn’t respect his mother!  I believe that men learn how to treat women from their mothers and the way they are bought up to respect their moms.  When a man is disrespectful to his mother, then usually he treats all women that way as well.  

      Also, when a man lies, even about the simplest things.  Big red flag!




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      Kyah wrote Apr 10, 2010
    • When he tries to get you to change your physical appearance just for him. Big red flag, take me as I am or leave me alone.




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      (華娃娃) ChinaDoll wrote Apr 10, 2010
    • In my case, when I married Mr. Wong, I should have known he was Mr. Wrong.  But luckily, I gave birth to Andy Wong and it is no Wrong.




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      Cynthia Schmidt wrote Apr 10, 2010
    • I think we all know in the back of our minds when Mr Wrong is in our midst. There’s a little voice, call it Woman’s Intuition, but it’s there whispering “run as fast as you can”

      Unfortunately many of us, myself included, have ignored that little voice.




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      Cristina Corral wrote Apr 10, 2010
    • Well since I just broke up with my boyfriend of 3 yrs, I can tell you how I know the signs of Mr. Wrong:
      1)disrespectful to you and your children
      2)doesn’t get a job for over 2 yrs - which equates to not contributing to the household bills, etc.
      3)calls you names - verbally abusive
      4)man-handles you -physically abusive
      5)let’s his father curse you out & stands by his father’s side rather than yours!
      6)never makes good on any promises
      7)is prejudice
      8)still lives with his parents at age 33 and has them pay for everthing!

      Does that sum up Mr. Wrong????




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      Msj wrote Apr 10, 2010
    • if he acts jealous it is NOT because he loves you!




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      Kyah wrote Apr 11, 2010
    • I agree that little voice of intuition should always be heeded. Listening to it would save women a whole lot of grief and pain. Quite a few women hear the voice and allow the need to love and be loved overrule the intuition.

      Another sign he’s Mr. Wrong is if your best friend can’t stand him and gives you valid reasons. And if your cat doesn’t like him, that’s an even bigger red flag.




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      Denise Richardson wrote Apr 11, 2010
    • If a man doesn’t care about his own appearance plus makes sly remarks to you about your appearance ( the is up kept) where he may say you‘re high maintenance, if he has no bank account, if his credit is bad, if he has never been a home owner, if he is self centered, if he doesn’t even open the door for you or help you with your chair, if he looks to you to pay the meal ticket, if he turns his head to looks at other women in your presents as they walk by, if he doesn’t accept your kids or pets, if he never ask you over to his place, if he lies to you about his job and what he does oh boy there are so many ways to know that he may not be the right one and as some has already said you will know by that small still voice inside your head telling you “WARNING, WARNING, WARNING” listen to it. Save yourself.




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      Ulrike Freund wrote Apr 11, 2010
    • What a hard experience! I can agree to you all, especially the bad sign if he treats his mother bad. My sons are such nice, warm, empathetic boys, especially to me, and so are they with their girlfriends. I’m very happy about that.




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      Helen Smith wrote Apr 11, 2010
    • You are all right on point, and the most valid of all is paying attention to how he behaves, not only with his family, because he could be a perfect gentleman around his family.  For me it’s bringing him home to MOM!  Everything she has ever told me about a man has turned out to be right on point.  Also when a man does not want to meet my family, the warning bells immediately go off.




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      Kmarie wrote Apr 11, 2010
    • When he is not respectfully of himself let alone others, when he is abusive of others emotionally, verbally or phyiscally. when his core values are not in common with yours then he is mister wrong




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      Mindy Wilson wrote Apr 11, 2010
    • He doesn’t listen
      You can’t stand the sound of his voice
      You aren’t proud of him
      You aren’t excited to see him
      Glad when he leaves
      He lives behind bars
      Lives with another woman
      Gives no respect to those around you and important to you...
      on, and on....




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      Denise Critcher wrote Apr 11, 2010
    • Where you guys just talking about my so to be ex-husband because I think you all just pegged him. And yes I should of seen all of the red flags before I married him. But the winds didn’t real come up fast enough for me. I know I got out before something happen to him and I would of felt guilty for leaving, but who I really feel sorry for is his 3 daughter that at this point in their lives don’t have a clue on how cruel he can be.




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      Msj wrote Apr 11, 2010
    • oh oh here is one

      ALLL HIS EXES ARE CUHRAZZZZY!!!!!!!   but he is kind and gentle and caring.... RUN Forrest RUN!




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      Ulrike Freund wrote Apr 11, 2010
    • Very good point, msj!!!




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      Tuliplady wrote Apr 11, 2010
    • He’s wrong if he doesn’t put you first in his life.
      I had to learn that the hard way. Spent fifteen years being far down on his list of priorities.  What’s worse is that my step-daughter made the same mistake.  She married a man who never ever put her first and I could do nothing but stand by and watch and help pick up the pieces when it all fell apart.




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      Anonymous wrote Jun 12, 2013
    • Denise why don’t you watch what you post. You made your bed, now you need to lay in it. You did wrong, not him.

      Until next time happy




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