Don't have an account? To participate in discussions consider signing up or signing in
facebook connect
Sign-up, its free! Close [x]

Benefits

  • okay Create lasting relationships with other like minded women.
  • okay Blogging, let your voice be heard!
  • okay Interact with other women through blogs,questions and groups.
  • okay Photo Album, upload your most recent vacation pictures.
  • okay Contests, Free weekly prize drawing.
  • okay Weekly Newsletter.

+1
Love it

Q & A

If your daughter is going through tough times with her boyfriend and she opts not to come to you for advice only because she knows what you told her in past times about her lover of choice and then things go bad between them to the point he breaks out all her car windows because of the fact that she found him out to be what I was trying to tell her all along what do you do?

+1
Love it



Answer this See more Questions

View All Answers

    • 0 votes vote up vote up

      Ulrike Freund wrote Apr 18, 2010
    • Oh, how hard!!! I would hate it. I think, my husband and I would hold her tight with us, protect her and give her lots of love and kisses and hugs. Oh dear...




            Report  Reply


    • +1 votes vote up vote up

      Tuliplady wrote Apr 18, 2010
    • YOu just have to hang in there and hope in time she comes to her senses.  be there to help her pick up the pieces of her life.  I’ve been thru it, and it’s a hard situation for a mom to be in.




            Report  Reply


    • +1 votes vote up vote up

      Brimstone1968 wrote Apr 18, 2010
    • I would definately call her, invite her to dinner or take her out for brunch, coffee, something.  Let her know that you are aware of what is going on but she is oh so welcome to talk about it and reassure her that if she donot want to talk about it, it is ok but you are there for her no matter what.  Give her the confidence she needs to know you care and are willing to help her. NEVER EVER bring up “I told you so“, she already know.  Pour some love on her, she is down, out and hurting, even feeling stupid and she just needs some true love about now.




            Report  Reply


    • +1 votes vote up vote up

      Cristina Corral wrote Apr 18, 2010
    • Just be her mom and love her unconditionally no matter what terrible decisions she has made.  I know I’ve been there and my mom has been there and truthfully speaking, I hate the “didn’t I tell you” response instead of just being there for me without commentary!




            Report  Reply


    • +1 votes vote up vote up

      Kathryn O'Hara wrote Apr 18, 2010
    • Been there. Done that.  Rented a U-Haul to get her and her stuff home.  Let her know she is loved very much by her dad and I. Hang in there with her and make sure she is safe.  Breaking windows is an act of violence that may spill over onto her, physically.

      3 yrs later, my daughter is in a healthy relationship with a guy who is so great, I couldn’t have picked a better man myself.  Love your girl thru this.




            Report  Reply


    • +1 votes vote up vote up

      Denise Richardson wrote Apr 18, 2010
    • Amen ladies, thank you all for your input,NO! I would never pull the I told you so card because I don’t have to she knows and knew I was right about this idiot from the beginning but I guess we must let them go their own way and find some things out for themselves but I never wanted her to have to go through this, and we (my hubby and I) just found out she has been going through with he for a while and yes he has put his hands on her and I am pissed about it, she is going to press charges as well as get a restraining order against him praise God. She is ok physically but of course her heart is hurting but she’ll get over it or at least she’d better, turns out he has been smoking crack cocaine in her home when she isn’t there and hid his tools in her home somewhere and she found it she didn’t give me all the details, but she told my hubby everything, I’m just happy she found him out this is what I saw in him when she first brought him on the scene. Well all I can say is to God be the glory for the things he has done, by pulling the covers off this demon from the pit of hell. Hallelujah!!!




            Report  Reply


    • 0 votes vote up vote up

      Denise Richardson wrote Apr 19, 2010
    • LOL, I know Term girl you don’t know how bad I WANT to go after this punk, but I calledand spoke with my cousin who is a police officer and gave him his address and all since my hubby knew where he lived and asked my cousin to do what he does best by getting his goone friends to deal with him.




            Report  Reply


    • 0 votes vote up vote up

      Lazylola wrote Apr 19, 2010
    • I think us moms should have special privilages to deal with any diot that messed with our babies without having to worry about going to prison. Just sayin’




            Report  Reply


    • 0 votes vote up vote up

      UK Girl wrote Apr 20, 2010
    • Oh Neicy last thing you need at the moment honey ...

      Well if she is confiding in your hubby that is a good sign and she is dealing with it.
      Sadly we know something is wrong but we also sometimes have to let them get on with it. Personally I would wait and then string him up later .....




            Report  Reply


Ask a Question






mature content submit as anonymous