I am with you. Maybe the new husband too...he cares about my needs as well. I enjoy working out as well as I have discovered the side effects in the bedroom.
I do have to admit I do find it better. I know what I want and how to get it. And I also find that men my age are more likely willing to please a woman than just have “wham bam thank you mam” sex.
hahahahaha, wow ladies, i know the feelings, its great, has i said didn’t have that when i was younger the sex seem to get better with age, i am thrill about it......
2 words: multiple orgasms
At 42 I am experiencing great sex. There is more time on behalf of myself and hubby. We only have 1 son and he is in college. We do it in the front room, the hall way, bathroom and any other fun place we want to pick in the house. Sex is not restricted to the bedroom anymore as we donot have to wonder if our son will approach us at any time. Hubby is so much more gentle, attentive. He has taken caressing to a total new level. We have much more romance. The foreplay is not like ok I need to get to the “sweet” part but it is slow and meaningful. I am experiencing a wonderful time now much better than my 30’s for sure. I am so much more settled and confident and communication between us has grown. The love and sex is on a higher level. I feel bless to be enjoying wonderful relations right now.
Wow Brimstone thats great, i know exactly what you talking about, the bedroom is a is the regular, so experiencing sexs in other place is great..............
Hmmm, mine is worse than ever. I got off birth control a year or two ago. Now hubbys afraid to come near...Add that to me not feeling good most of the time, and well...its not so great anymore.
weell, i wouldnt know! lol when i left the x husband 12 years ago, i made a decision that my children come first.. so its been that long without! lol pitty the guy when it does happen.. lol lol
I like Monica’s answer
Well Ellen got find away especially if you love each other, got to bring back that spark, don’t worry there are many ways to make a man want you like crazy think about it and work your way...........
We are working on ours, it was great when we first got togehter ten yrs ago. And ours sex life is the best ive ever had. But my kids and grandkids, stress and alot of upheaval in my family, has taken its toll.and if you dont feel sexy, well ect.. but its me not him
Hmmm, wonder what happened to my post?
Well ours went from fabulous, to ok, to nonexistant. Hubby’s health problems have put an end to our sex life.
It’s ironic that I’m at a point in my life that I could have any man I wanted (seriously I have a huge choice of men around here) and the only one I want is the one who can’t do these things with me.
Great when it happens...Too much stress right now. Looking forward to dumping all this stress and getting a life.
mine was not good, but I lost weight and started feeling better about myself. I need to lose more but I feel so much better and I relized that I should never have let our sex life go like I did. Now I try to make sure we do almost everyday, with just a few exceptions. We are so much closer now. Our relationship is growing again.