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Have you ever been the other woman? How and when did you break it off?

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      Mztracy wrote Jun 18, 2010
    • nope, not in my character!




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      Brimstone1968 wrote Jun 18, 2010
    • I have never done it and it is not apart of me to do it.  Just wondering if it all started out as a lie.




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      Kyah wrote Jun 18, 2010
    • Not recently. When I was 20 something there was a guy who was coming around, made me feel as if I was the only one. Then one day I saw him with this woman and a child. The child called him Daddy and that was the last time I saw him. I have grown not to trust men in general and once I’ve put them through my tests, if they pass, fine ... if not I kick them to the curb!




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      Frannie1964 wrote Jun 18, 2010
    • The same as Kyah...When I was In my early 20’s I met this guy at work. I was working at Carls Jr. at the time and the truck delivery driver who delivered the goods to Carls Jr. asked me out, so we went out and after that we went on a few dates, I noticed on the 3rd date that he had a childs seat In the back of his car and so I asked him, umm whats with the baby seat In your car? and he told me It belonged to his sister, that she barrowed his car and she left the seat In the back, so of course nieve and young I believed him. But then one day he had a partner with him when he was delivering and he started talking to me and we were just gabbing and he happen to mention that (I don’t even remember his name)His partner was married. Not sure how we got on that subjuct, but we did and I was upset and I went to the guy and told him I was never going out with him again. And that was that!




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      Denise Richardson wrote Jun 18, 2010
    • Yes! This was when I was younger and didn’t know any better, I just told him that I wasn’t any longer interested in doing what we were doing and that I wanted to be free from him and the ties he had with me, it worked.




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      Tuliplady wrote Jun 18, 2010
    • I went out with a guy a few back when I was 18 or 19.  My roomate got mad at me because I was going out with a guy who already had a girlfriend.  I said, well I’m here and she’s not, so tough luck to her.  Then I found out the girlfriend was like 16 (and he was 21).  I thought it was pretty icky he was dating a high school kid and dropped him.




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      Victorious wrote Jun 18, 2010
    • When I was in my early 20’s. My bf and I were going for 1 year. He kept dissapearing and had no explination. I got tired of it and broke it off. A co-worker called me years after and let me know that he was married all that time and they all knew and did not know how to tell me. I felt really bad about it. If I knew then I would not have gone into that situation.worried




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      Wookiemom09 wrote Jun 18, 2010
    • In my early 20’s I met a coworker’s ex husband at a co picnic and he called me at work about a month later to asked me out.  We dated a few months then one day i heard my co worker was gushing that she had reconciled and they were moving back in together. She didn’t know we were dating.  He told me it wasn’t true and wanted to keep dating.  3 months later he asked me to marry him and i said yes.  After we told everyone we knew and my family, his best friend told me he lied to me and he had moved in with his exwife for a month to make sure it was really over (truth - really needed a place to live and free sex), I was naive and married him anyway.  guess what - 5 years in I caught him cheating!?  Took him back and 4 years later caught him again.




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      Mzd3 wrote Jun 18, 2010
    • No, I havent.




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      Tracy Lynn Brown wrote Jun 20, 2010
    • Please dont hold my andswer to this agaisnt me, and i would love to say i have never done this, but i cant. I did date a married man, and i was young, so who knows what i was truly thinking. I knew he was married and brought it up to him in the beginning, but he didnt seem to care. He wasnt the only guy i dated at the time, and i was young and wild at the time.
      It wasnt a sexual thing, more of a hanging out and drinking thing. It went on for about 8 months, and his wife knew what he was up to, but i wasnt the first and im sure i wasnt the last.
      The agreement was it would never become an emotional attachment, we must have got bored and finally moved on. To this day i truly dont know what i was thinking at the time, But what i do beleive is once a man has done this, he will do it again and again.
      I went on with my life and he did his. His wife left him at a latter date, and has her own life too. And he did popped back up in my life now and again.
      He was never someone i would have trusted or thought of in a serious way cause if he did that to her he would do that to any woman he was with.
      I would never do it again, and would caution anyone agaisnt it, you are ruining two lives, yours and some other innocent womans.  Life is about learning lessons i guess.




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      Esther Bloom wrote Jun 25, 2010
    • Yes but only for one night stands!!! Nothing long lasting.....




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      Karyn Olson wrote Jun 25, 2010
    • Yes, in my younger years when I was wild and free and didn’t care about anyone but myself...wouldn’t do it today though.




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