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Is there a family member that’s makes you unhappy and you don’t know how to get a grip on it or how to walk away, which family member for you? mine is both my daughter and her dad, they are driving me crazy, she being disrespectful to me and her dad being the cheater that he is, how do you handle i?/...

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      Lazylola wrote Jun 28, 2010
    • estaticI don’t have any family that makes me unhappy, but I have plenty I have no use for.




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      Mztracy wrote Jun 28, 2010
    • yes, but I am taking the 5th!! lol




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      Wookiemom09 wrote Jun 28, 2010
    • my middle sister - her life is a roller coaster and i am tired of being forced to ride.




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      Suzann wrote Jun 28, 2010
    • Oh Sweetie, I’m so sorry you are going through these problems. My heart is with you.  

      I had a family issue once, and I pulled away from all involved. Many years later, I was so regretful, and so wished I hadn’t done that. But that’s just me. Your situation is entirely different.

      I don’t know what to tell you, except that you deserve to be treated well by all your family members. No one has any right to be anything but loving to you.

      Know that it’s not your fault, and that life is filled with these issues. I pray for the best for you, I truly do.




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      Anne E wrote Jun 28, 2010
    • I dread any interaction with my daughter’s dad (my ex). When she’s 18, I’ll never have to see him again! estatic




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      Camille Vendryes wrote Jun 28, 2010
    • Hey Suzann, thanks for your care, my life has been a turmoil for many years now, i hang on into to it to try and work it out, but no matter what i do nothing  seem to be right, he does what he does best cheat he now have a 3 year old daughter with this woman, so its time for me to move on there is no hope in wanting him back this woman is doing everything in her power to have him at full charge, my daughter is always angry with me can never figure out why she is like this, all i ever give was love and care, i have  sent to her to ton loads of therapist,nothing works, she calls me name, bitch ect, she tells me she wants me to moved out, all she said to me hurts me more than what her dad did to me, but life is what it is right now, i cant focus, all i do is just cry and pray when they are sleeping.....but i know the right thing is to leave, which i am working on right now, they will be happier with me not being around......




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      Denise Richardson wrote Jun 29, 2010
    • All 7 of my siblings and I have walked away from them all. I have have such peace in my life in doing so. I refuse to all myself to continue on in my life to be the butt of their jokes. My siblings and I never could see eye to eye and I’m ok with being apart from them my life is different from theirs.




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      Angelcart wrote Jun 29, 2010
    • Wow Camille so sorry to hear that.  I believe your daughter is hurting.  As far as your husband, been there and through the same thing.  When I got a call on my birthday from this young chick that she had twins from my husband I thought it was a joke.  Found out it wasn’t.  Needless to say I kicked him to the curb!  Much happier now.  Remarried to a great guy now.  Best of luck to you.  You deserve it!




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      Cc-u wrote Jun 29, 2010
    • My sister is on my list right now...Has no sense of boundaries...I’ve got to do with her what I do with my mom—lower my expectations!




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      Camille Vendryes wrote Jun 30, 2010
    • Wow Angelcart that must have been hard for you, my ex as i call him his daughter is now 3 years old, i remember the first time i found out is through a email from her, it was in my junk box’s its her name i saw and decide to open it, i thought i was dumb struck for at least 2 hours before i call him, i have never cried and tremble so hard in my life, but you know what time to get a move on my health is fading because i sit here and ponder about it, time to go!!!!




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      Kathryn O'Hara wrote Jul 4, 2010
    • Oh Camille, I am so sorry you are in this place.  I think your daughter is in pain too.  She probably loves her dad and wants him in her life,but can’t reconcile what he has done.  And she is a young girl, so she is not looking at this situation with the wisdom of an adult, she is reacting as an immature teenager.  So her behaviour is completely normal,even though it is hurtful to you.  She just wants things to be “the way they were...”  Just let her know you love her.  And consider yourself hugged.




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      Camille Vendryes wrote Jul 5, 2010
    • Thanks Kathryn, i will.......i think she is afraid her dad might not love her again because he has a new kid, but i told her her dad will always love her but i don’t think she believe this and she is retaliating, but deep down she wants her family, but we all humanly know thats not possible my heart is too hurt, abd the damange is has done already no turning back for me.....




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