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Help!! I am 46 year old single mother with 3 teenagers in home. Met a nice man who is separated from wife. Wife showed up at 2am banging on door and ringing his phone while we were making love. Every instinct says to run for the hills from this relationship because I dont want drama. He has asked me to be patient an give him time to work this situation out. Part of me wants to wait for him. He is a really great guy (I think) What to do? What to do?
As a parent (though married), I have to say that he needs to be out of your life until things are VERY straightened away in his life. I find it extremely alarming that his wife banging on the door and calling at 2am. What other craziness is she capable of, and what are you potentially exposing your kids to?
I’d give him a limited (very limited) amount of time to get things staightened out. You don’t need that kind of drama in your life. But if he can get his life under control (and get a divorce) within a couple months then he might be worth waiting for. I’d give it to him straight. I will wait xx amount of time to get your act together.
Tulip
As a parent (though married), I have to say that he needs to be out of your life until things are VERY straightened away in his life. I find it extremely alarming that his wife banging on the door and calling at 2am. What other craziness is she capable of, and what are you potentially exposing your kids to?
yes, he needs a specific amount of time..........and you must stick to that!
I agree with Mamapan!
Unfortunately while you have kids at home it’s not just about you. You have to consider them as well. And when they grow up they will probably emulate your relationships.
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i agree with everyone! 
not good for the children at home to be around all this! they need to come first, and like Kristi said, separated is still married
Wow! We are an agreeable bunch today!
@hotyvette I sure hope you take the collective advice you have been given. These women on here are some of the most compassionate, caring and intelligent women.
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Vicki, You said every fiber of you being is telling you to run; listen! Instincts hear and see things we might not want to accept. And listen to the wisdom that has been given from the others here. We all want what’s best for you.
Paula
Give him space until the divorce is final. I don’t want to see him break your heart 
Thank you Ladies! I really appreciate the energy you used to give me some really sage advice. What I have come to understand is that I DESERVE a man who is all mine, and a role model for my children. Love to you all, and thanks again.
Until the divorce is final, he’s married! Better to keep your distance for now, what if you fall in love with him and then he just trot’s back to his wife and family??? That would HURT!
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