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Have you ever heard of swingers clubs and have you ever been to one?
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      Debpeters wrote Aug 10, 2010
    • A friend of mine just told me her and her husband are thinking of attending one and asked if we want to attend. I am not sure, since I have never been to one, and I am not sure what to expect.




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      Mztracy wrote Aug 10, 2010
    • Heard of them, but would NEVER go to one!

      Expect sex with other people...




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      Denise Richardson wrote Aug 10, 2010
    • Oh sure I have there are several secret swinger’s clubs here in Michigan especially in the downtown Detroit area, I for one has never been and don’t wish to go, but I have friends who has gone and they liked them and has gone many times, I just don’t see the sense in them as well the morals of them.




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      Lazylola wrote Aug 10, 2010
    • There are probably more swingers out there than most people realize, I know way to many of them. As Tracy said expect sex with other people. It isn’t for me...not worth risking a good relationship or my health and I wouldn’t be able to stomach my husband/partner getting dirty with someone else.




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      Momofthreeprincess wrote Aug 10, 2010
    • Yes and Yes.  I will say this right now, that it was one main reason why my marrage had problems and broke up.  If you are happy with your sex life don’t go.  If you are happy in your marrage don’t go.  Every couple that I know that has gone has major problems with their marrage.  Even with rules, you still have those that end up being broken.  And by the way these clubs are all over the place not just in downtown areas.  They are in suburbs, in the country, small towns, the people are not like your hookers types, but could very well be your next door nieghbor who is the president of the local garden club, the doctor around the corner or even the police officer that just gave you a ticket.




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      Angelcart wrote Aug 10, 2010
    • Yes I’ve heard of them but you couldn’t pay me enough money to go to one.  IMO they are disgusting!!!heartbreak




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      Linni wrote Aug 10, 2010
    • i have heard of them but have never been to one.. not my thing




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      Cathie Beck wrote Aug 10, 2010
    • Swingers means sex, not dancing. Like Angelcart, I give it a thumbs down.  

      My X was hoping I’d agree to an “open” marriage ... and Sur-Prise! ... only in your dreams,
      Bub! If you’d seen the look of disappointment on his face... so pathedic! There is a couple
      we knew with an open marriage and the woman is a mess from it, in my opinion. Well, no surprise to me that she is, it’s demoralizing. No man is ever going to pass me around like a tray of appetitizers!  

      Cathie




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      Brimstone1968 wrote Aug 10, 2010
    • Yes, I have heard of it and researched it.  For the life of me I cannot see where the pleasuure is in having you spread your legs and toss around your body to different people fun and enjoying.  I am sure if you interviewed ex-swingers they have some pretty horror stories.  I love my sanity and my body to much for that nonsense.




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      Kandykahne 5 wrote Aug 10, 2010
    • I’ve heard of them but will never go to one.




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      Marya1961 wrote Aug 10, 2010
    • At my age, the thought of handling another man’s penis and I am not in love with him would make me toss my cookies!ohhhh




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      Brimstone1968 wrote Aug 10, 2010
    • Marya, you gave me a good afternoon laugh




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      Anonymous wrote Aug 10, 2010
    • Yes and yes we do..........I'm posting this anonymous for the obvious reason..........there are ALOT of misconceptions about the lifestyle. First off it is NOT for everyone......you should never do it just because your spouse or SO other wants to you and don't want to disappointment them. It should be something that you are both interested in and curious about.    

      Also I have NEVER been to a club and been EXPECTED to have SEX.....I have been asked.....I have participated FREELY......but if asked and I’m not interested or not in the mood to play then “no” is all that is ever needed to be said.  

      You will find swingers from everyone walk of life......from the doctor, to the police officer, to the teacher, to the preacher, to the stay at home mom, to the movie star......

      If you are interested in the lifestyle it should be something you can freely discuss with your spouse/SO .........if you can’t talk about this you are most likely never going to be able to do this.....

      Believe it or not ladies it’s in the men’s DNA to want “strange“...........now with that said not everyone man will act on it.......but FEW if asked honestly won’t say they’ve “never” thought about it.......

      Stop being so squeamish and prudish about sex......for someone of us it’s a hobby if you like not unlike, building a bird house, racing cars, or sewing......I just happen to like some different........and I happen to like doing it alot!  In the infamous words over the door of the Chicago playboy mansion.........

      Si Non Oscillas, Noli Tintinnare (If you don't swing, don't ring)




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      Angelcart wrote Aug 12, 2010
    • I don’t think the ladies are being “squeamish“.  Also, I’ve never heard of sex as a “hobby” or had it compared to building bird houses,LOL.  I’m just curious if it’s so ok and a hobby then why it was posted Anon?  We all have different hobbies but I haven’t seen on the site anyone post anon that they like to build bird houses.  LOL




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      Angelcart wrote Aug 12, 2010
    • Oh, I forgot to say I don’t know of anyone to get an STD from building a bird house. happy




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      Anne E wrote Aug 13, 2010
    • I wouldn’t go to one. Not my type of thing at all




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      Nita P wrote Jan 24, 2012
    • have heard of them, have entertained the idea of another couple only.  finding the right like minded couple is not easy.  hhmm swingers club i instantly think of s.t.ds.




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