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What do u do when u truely thought a friend was a friend but turned out to be a total snake bit#h? It really hurts.

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      Denise Richardson wrote Aug 26, 2010
    • Oooooooooooooooh boy do I know this one oh too well, and I can’t say what I’d truly liketo say but, when it was all over said and done she tried to come running back to me trying to befriend me once the truth hit the fan and she was found out but I left her butt standing she is still to this day paying for her lies and her distrust to me. I have N-O-T-H-I-N-G!!! to do with her. I know I had to forgive her but, I will never forget.




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      Amy L. Harden wrote Aug 26, 2010
    • It does hurt and pulls on the heart.heartbreak  I really don’t know what to say about it..other than ...the truth eventually comes out.  An apology would be nice, especially if you didn’t do anything to deserve the treatment.

      I just recently went through this...it still breaks my heart because I still don’t understand what happened.  I will probably never know...so, I still pray for this person and then leave her and my hurt with God.  

      I am sorry this has happened to you...vent and release it... move on or it will just become toxic.

      “Forgiveness does not make them right....it makes you free!”




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      Brimstone1968 wrote Aug 26, 2010
    • Ouch, I feel this one and I know it hurts like hell.  The lie in my situation could have caused a real mess in my marriage if my husband did not know me and trust me.  Like Niecy I have N O T H I N G to do with her.  She did come around after the truth came out and blew straight up in her face she did come around and apologise.  The pain was so deep I could not accepted it at the time.  Ihad to process it and it took a while.  I have forgiven her at the time when I could have moved on but forgetting I donot think I will ever forget.  It is tough but do what y ou have to do in that if you have to cry, scream, vent, do so.  It is going to go away and the TRUTH will come out eventually.  I wish you all the best.




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      Nerissa wrote Aug 26, 2010
    • I am so very sorry  that happened to you, but it truly is one of life’s lessons. “Just when you think you know who someone really is, they show you who they really are“.  Remember who they really are. Eyes wide open, you  are aware, if at all possible, move on and don’t look back. It reminds me of the vampire folk lore, a vampire can not enter your domain unless you invite them, it may be folklore but people are like that too.  Just Like the trojan horse, “bewate of Greeks baring gifts“. Some individuals have questionable motives. God has got you and you have all of us too.heart




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      Denise Richardson wrote Aug 26, 2010
    • @Nerissa & Mz V, I have been through some sh** with some so called female friends and since then I have learned and take Maya Angelou at her word she has a quote that says:
      "WHEN PEOPLE SHOW YOU WHO THEY ARE BELIEVE THEM!"
      I stand on this word and trust and believe I keep it in the front of my mind when dealing with people now.




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      Cynthia Schmidt wrote Aug 26, 2010
    • I’m sorry this happened to you. I agree with the others here. And, I know that even though we believe in our hearts that it will all pass it still hurts right now.




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      Cheekymonkey wrote Aug 26, 2010
    • thank u all im trying. I was in the hospital and she HIT on my husband!
      With everything in our lifes right now....u are all better women than me for I will never
      Forgive this or let it go. After cyndi passed away last month this thing was
      My closest friend. Her excuse was after im gone she thought my husband should have someone to turn too. The gull ...it makes me SICK.




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      Msj wrote Aug 26, 2010
    • OMGOSH! I am so sorry! that is horriblefrown




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      Denise Richardson wrote Aug 26, 2010
    • GIRRRRRRRRRRRL!!!!! she hasssssssss crossed the line she needs her a** whipped fo' real excuse my french, but that is a tabo with me you don't go there with your friends man/husband she is a snake if I never saw one get rid of her ASAP!!!




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      Lazylola wrote Aug 26, 2010
    • Wow what a Bitch! want us to go kick her a$$? that is not a friend.




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      Angelcart wrote Aug 27, 2010
    • Neicy that’s a great quote, my girlfriend uses it all the time.  So very true!




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      Mztracy wrote Aug 27, 2010
    • Is it the girl who passed away that did this to you? I’m a bit confused by your last post.

      You do not have to forgive or forget, but you must let it go or it will tear you up and then she wins.

      Like ruby said, want us to go kick her ass!




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      Cathie Beck wrote Aug 27, 2010
    • Woo! Now that is Not a friend! Kick her butt to the curb and keep going without looking back. It’s sad and disappointing she would cross that line, but it’s better to know who you have been trusting, maybe?  

      Hugs,
      Cathie




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      Denise Richardson wrote Aug 27, 2010
    • ROTFLMBO@ Term atta girl lol she said what I wanted to say thanks for say it for me too!




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      Nita P wrote Jan 25, 2012
    • distance myslef, spend less and less time with them and hopefully they will find new friends




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