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What do u do if u feel disliked on fab 4o? would u leave the site?




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      Mary Clark wrote Sep 16, 2010
    • First I would want to know “WHY” anyone would feel disliked on FAB40 unless you have not been very nice to everyone else.  Sometimes I think some might feel this way if people do not agree with their views...etc.  But that doesn’t mean that people do not like you....they just don’t agree with you.  

      So to answer your question...I think you might leave if you felt that way but this would apply to anything really...so I don’t think there is a “black and white” answer to this....I dont know...I’m confused here...tongue out lol




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      Angell VillafaƱe wrote Sep 16, 2010
    • I agree with Mary...can you think back to any conversations with other women here where it may have gotten a little confrontational or where you may have been misunderstood? Sometimes it is hard to comprehend what someone is writing...what someone is trying to say can be misinterpreted. So let me ask you...why do you feel disliked?




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      Lazylola wrote Sep 16, 2010
    • i introduced a friend to fab 40 and unfortunately she came on when there were petty heated things going on, it was kind of high schoolish and i tried reassuring her that that was not an accurate representation of the women on here, she left the site but kept the connections she made on the site...and ditto what has been said above




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      Cathie Beck wrote Sep 16, 2010
    • If I felt I wasn’t liked by one or two women here, I wouldn’t leave the whole group because of it. There’s so many Fabulous women here in the Fab40 group! ;oD  

      Cathie




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      Momofthreeprincess wrote Sep 16, 2010
    • I really do not care if someone likes me or not.  I grew being teased all my teen years and have a pretty thick skin.  I also know how to dish it out too.  Nope not going to leave unless I felt that my privacy was being compromised.  

      I love this site and have met so many women that I admire and love.  If one or two don’t like me oh well life goes on.  I can’t make everyone love me.




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      Denise Richardson wrote Sep 16, 2010
    • Been there done that here on this site there were several who has since left the site for whatever reason who didn’t like me and it was fine with me. NO! I will never leave Fab40 because of others and their insecurities.




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      Cynthia Schmidt wrote Sep 16, 2010
    • Some of the reasons I think a member would feel disliked are

      No one responds to their questions or blogs
      Someone posted a comment that felt critical or derogatory

      If either of these apply and if you are interested in being a part of the site still, I’d try a different approach. Are your postings always done in a negative tone? Are you consistently trying to sell something to other members? Are you participating in a variety of community topics, blogs, questions?

      One other thing, when we put something down on the screen our emotions and tone of voice are left out. Perhaps someone perceived something you posted incorrectly or vice versa.

      I hope this helps. I really don’t believe there are any members that are generally disliked. Give us another try.




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      Mary Clark wrote Sep 16, 2010
    • Great points Cynthia!!




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      Cathie Beck wrote Sep 16, 2010
    • Yes, I agree with Mary that you have good points to offer her, Cynthia.  

      Cathie




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      Linda L wrote Sep 17, 2010
    • I agree with Cynthia.

      For me there was a time when I felt disliked on fab40 because I only had a couple of friends.  Not that the quanity matters, but over the summer since I was on work break, I participated alot by asking and answering questions/blogs and fab40 friends and I got to know each other.  I received more friendship requests and have communicated by e-mail with some.  I’m not saying that I need several friends, but participating was a big help.  

      We‘re here to connect, offer info and support in a caring, respectful manner.  I don’t know your reason for feeling disliked, but I recommend trying the great tips from the ladies above.  

      Take care,
      Linda estatic




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      Ditzychick wrote Sep 24, 2010
    • Aww hope the responses above have helped you. I’m new on here and only just getting my bearings but first impressions are that the vibes are friendly and supportive, keep on trying, take some of the advice above and i’m sure it will turn out ok if you choose to hanga around some more xxheartheartestatic




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