Help! I have completely lost my libido. I can’t remember the last time I had an orgasm. I went to the doctor and he gave me some testosrene (sp?) cream but it didn’t help. We’ve tried foreplay, different positions, K-Y jelly to help with lubrication, nothing. I used to have a fabulous sex life with my husband but now we have kids and I hate to say it but I’m not attracted to him anymore. He’s put on quite a bit of weight. He’s always initiating and I feel bad that he always has to, but I just am not interested. Any suggestions?