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I am divorced.. just got dumped from a long term relationship... how do I get over him and move on when my heart is still hooked?

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      Yana Berlin wrote Aug 25, 2008
    • Hi Staci,

      Surround yourself with friends, positive energy, happy people.

      It’s easier said than done, it takes time to heal.  

      I have several friends that are dating and I just wrote an article Breaking up with a text message
      I’m really disappointed with men.

      Having said that, there is one for everyone, and I’m sure you will find the love of your life. Just don’t loose hope.

      Sending you hugs,

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      Cynthia Schmidt wrote Aug 25, 2008
    • We’ve all been there and there’s just no easy answer. I agree with Yana, surround yourself with friends and positive people. But most of all, just nurture yourself in whatever way works best for you. And, over time, the healing will come.
      Take care

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      Sara Winsor wrote Aug 25, 2008
    • First...Honor the Goddess within !

      Book youself a great Spa day at a very nice Day Spa. Spend the entire day there being pampered. Spend this time giving yourself what you need right now.. Love!

      Next, Get yourself a journal and write a good bye letter. No plans, no mistakes, no time limit. Write the good, bad, ugly and funny.

      I am here for you!

      The Shoe Diva

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      Andrea Kuhman wrote Aug 26, 2008
    • All of the above.  Then make a list, short or long, it doesn’t matter, of all things you WON‘T miss the POSITIVE things that will happen now that you are no longer in that relationship.  

      Here are 3 of each of mine from the last relationship before I met my fiance‘:

      I WOM‘T miss:

      1) kisses that smell of smoke
      2) wondering if he is where he said he would be
      3) my calls not being answered

      I WILL have:

      1) plant my garden myself and nurture it while nurturing myself
      2) get a pedicure with a bold color
      3) will spend more time with the friends that I didn’t used to.

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