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anonymous Anonymous

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I was married young and am still married to the same guy 20 years later.  We have always been good friends and get a long great in most areas.  Sex is the one area where we clash.  I think it comes from the fact that my husband never had any sexual encounters before we got married.  So he learned everything he knows about sex from reading or watching adult videos.  I feel like my idea of how sex should be in a marital relationship is “normal.”  Sex anywhere from once to several times a week.  Sometimes we share adult videos, etc.  So it isn’t as if he is deprived or even has a boring sex life. But he never seems satisfied. But I feel like he looks at it as a glass half empty.  He wants to try it all or something before it is too late.  It has gotten so that I don’t even want to be with him alone because all he wants to do is talk about our sex life. I actually look forward to when he goes on travel and feel bad about that. I think it is time for him to focus on other things.  We both work full time and have older college age, and high school age kids.  I feel like we have the same conversation over and over and he just wants me to agree to do everything and anything he wants to do so he tries to wear me down.  Is this normal?  I have told him how I feel but nothing ever changes.  Any advice?

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