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So ladies tell me....what is your opinion on why so many men cheat on their women? Do you think it is something they are lacking in their relationships or is it just in their nature to be that way?




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      Cynthia Schmidt wrote Nov 20, 2010
    • It’s a mystery to me. My husband says he doesn’t think that all that many men do cheat. At least the men he’s been friends with through the years haven’t. And I’m very confident that he never would. But, if I had to wager a guess I’d say it’s something that the male brain is hardwired to do. Some men have conditioned themselves to resist that temptation. Just a thought.




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      Denise Richardson wrote Nov 20, 2010
    • I feel with those who do cheat its something they just want to do because of their lack at home or just out of curiosity to see if they can get away with it and most get caught up in having feelings for the other woman, like my mom used to say when you lay down cheating someone is getting up with feelings  its just not worth the chance of losing all you have built with your current lover/husband or wife. Just my opinion.happy




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      Mztracy wrote Nov 20, 2010
    • Not all men cheat. Women cheat as well, but women tend to be much more discreet. Probably why you do not hear of it more often.

      Why some men cheat is and will always be a mystery. Bad morals, trying to prove something to themselves, who knows.




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      Angell Villafañe wrote Nov 21, 2010
    • This question was in my mind because I am hearing about all these celebrity marriages where the guy got caught cheating...the latest is Eva Longoria’s husband Tony Parker. I asked myself how in the world could anyone cheat on Eva Longoria??? I mean she is gorgeous!! Of course I don’t know her as a person so there could be alot more to the story...there usually is...but I just don’t get it. And Tracy you are right...women cheat as well...it’s usually only the men you hear about but it has been so many lately...it’s just crazy to me. I feel like many people just don’t value their relationships at all...it’s sad really. frown




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      Tuliplady wrote Nov 21, 2010
    • Statistics say that just as many women as men cheat.  I’d say women are MUCH smarter about not getting caught.  

       Of the people I know personally who have cheated on their spouse, all of them are women.  I know a lot of men who are crazy flirts, but when it comes right down to it, they’d never cheat on their wife.

      Also, if a woman is cheated on by her husband, she’s usually going to make a huge stink about it and the whole world is going to know about that so and so cheater, so we hear about those affairs.  If a man’s wife cheats on him, his pride takes a hit and he’s going to hope nobody ever finds out, so you don’t hear about that so much.  Just my thought.




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      Vikki Hall wrote Nov 21, 2010
    • I read somewhere that it’s because men are just wired to procreate..... maybe our own David Mathews had an article on this........ or Men’s Health mag........

      Either way I think it has to do with something the person feels he/she is lacking in them own selves.

      It’s too easy to blame it on the spouse or SO by saying they‘re not doing this that or the other. But I would say “step up and man up and use your voice“!




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      Angelcart wrote Nov 22, 2010
    • I believe a lot of men like to have their cake and eat it to and that it has nothing to do with their wives.




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      Denise Richardson wrote Nov 22, 2010
    • Not that I condone cheating from either party but yes we women do most everything better than men lol.




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      Marya1961 wrote Nov 22, 2010
    • I agree with Eva335..many men IMO want companionship and need to feel that they are the most important, above everything else, and if they don’t get it, they wander...it is NOT always about sex.




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      Nita P wrote Jan 24, 2012
    • lacking in their relationship and i guess marriage was not what they had expected it to be, woman can cheat too...lets be fair




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