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Are you envious of people who has it all - beauty, brains, talent, good personality, etc.?




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      Tuliplady wrote Jan 10, 2011
    • In my circle of friends, I’m told I am that person.  

      I agree with Mamapan.  Nobody has it all.

      Sometimes though when I’m feeling down I do look at a person who gives the appearance of being nearly perfect and I do envy them for a tiny moment.  But I’m sure I wouldn’t want their problems and they wouldn’t want mine!




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      Angell Villafañe wrote Jan 10, 2011
    • Sometimes I do but just for a moment. Just because someone appears to have it all doesn’t necessarily mean that they do and we don’t know what struggles they have in their life or the road they traveled to get to where they are.




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      Vikki Hall wrote Jan 10, 2011
    • We all got something in our loves and yes sometimes the FRONT is actually better than the reality..... whatever gets you through your day!




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      Angelcart wrote Jan 10, 2011
    • No.  I have a friend who we go visit with frequently and they have a stunning custom home in the Texas Hill Country.  She’s an unbelievable artist.  Paint’s like you wouldn’t believe and now she’s making the most beautiful jewelry.  I’m happy for her because (1) we get to go stay at their home and (2) she always give’s me a bracelet when we get their!happy




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      Denise Richardson wrote Jan 10, 2011
    • I love what Eva said, but as for me NO! I'm never envious of what others have now are some envious of me? Yes! why? Only they and God knows but I'm thankful for all that I do have, hey! I worked hard for it and its mine, mine, mine, "don't be a hater"  just go after what it is you want!!!!




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      UK Girl wrote Jan 10, 2011
    • actually as you grow older don’t you find they might “appear” to have it all but actually about 70% of the time it’s a façade and when you did down or unpeel they don’t.

      To answer the question no I don’t as I’m happy with my lot in life besides who is happy always eyeing other folks lives up when so much could happening in yours




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      Mary Clark wrote Jan 10, 2011
    • I’m happy for everyone that has it all and is happy!
      So what does “having it all“..really mean?  

      Frankly....I think I’m pretty blessed with what I have and very content.  Just because it appears to be greener on the other side doesn’t mean it really is.....




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      Mzd3 wrote Jan 10, 2011
    • I know some people who do have it all, but I know them well enough to know about the problems that come along with it, and no, I do not envy that..




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      Carine Nadel wrote Jan 10, 2011
    • no, everyone is beautiful in their own way.  Brains are something you can always try and work on and talent-well, everyone has one, IMHO, you just have to find yours and go w/ it.




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      Cathie Beck wrote Jan 11, 2011
    • Well, this was a profound question. ;oD  I’ve thought it over and my answer is no, I’m not envious of others who seem to have it all. Trust me... none of us has it all perfectly, there is something that will not be easy for us, there’s always challenges and that’s just how life is.  

      Cathie




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      Diane17 wrote Jan 11, 2011
    • No.  I feel like I have more than some people and other people have more than me.  I personally try not to compare myself to others.

      Plus everyone in life has their ups and downs.




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      Cheekymonkey wrote Jan 11, 2011
    • This is gonna sound REALLY bad and cheeky.......but I feel I do have it all. I think Im pretty enough....made much more so from the beauty in my heart. I am smart but never afraid to learn more or ask for help, I am funny....ask Ill tell you lol ,
      I think part of all that is I love who I am. And I truely believe we all are perfect with who we are Im glad Im tall I have a good heart im funny lol see I told u id tell you.
      I strive to improve myself and good or bad Im me what you see is what you get
      So, no I dont envy anyone thats a waste of energy for your never gonna be like them. You gonna be you.




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      Linda L wrote Jan 15, 2011
    • Thanks ladies for your comments.  I confess that I am envious of people who are beautiful, very intelligent, talented, have many friends, etc., but after reading your comments made me realize I still have a long ways to go in accepting ME.  Thanks.




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      Cathie Beck wrote Jan 22, 2011
    • Linda, you shine in so many ways and it’s hard for me to think of you as not seeing how great you are.  

      Cathie




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      Linda L wrote Jan 23, 2011
    • Thank you for the compliment, Cathie.  You‘re great too!!! heart estatic




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