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Do you think that not taking things personal works for you?




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      Linda L wrote Jan 17, 2011
    • Sometimes I do have a problem in taking things personally.  For example if I hardly get any responses from my questions, certain co-workers don’t talk to me, not acknowledged for my ideas at work, etc., I think that I’m not liked or my ideas or questions are stupid.  I just have to tell myself that it’s no big deal and to forget about it.




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      Hunnypot88 wrote Jan 17, 2011
    • Yes! a lot of times we are too sensitive and look for the negative in things. If we don’t take things personally most of the time, Then our feelings do not get hurt so easily.




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      Brenda Clark wrote Jan 17, 2011
    • While I try to NOT take things personally, it truly depends on the situation and my own state of mind at the time.  I’m by nature an emotional being however, I do understand where and when emotional decisions belong.




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      Dorothy L. Davis wrote Jan 17, 2011
    • At the spiritual classes I attend my minister says laughing, don’t take it personal. He says ‘if I did that he would be insane!‘estatic I truly believe it because I choose now to think before responding and reacting.




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      Anne E wrote Jan 18, 2011
    • I don’t know- I’m pretty bad about taking things personally.




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      Cathie Beck wrote Jan 22, 2011
    • It really depends on what’s going on for me. I did take it personally when I was snubbed by people I thought were friends at the time of the divorce. Now I don’t care and see them for what those people are.... not my friends. ;oD  I let a lot roll off my back, and maybe there’s times I’m not sensitive enough with the feelings of others. I have to remember my sense of humor isn’t funny to Everyone and for this reason think sometimes I need to take things more personally?  

      Cathie




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