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How do you deal with rejection from your spouse or SO?

Last night I got an instant rush of wanting to be intimate and hubbie wanted to go to bed because he had to get on the road at 5 for a two and a half hour drive to attend a workshop.  That I understood yet for some reason I did not take to kindly to the rejection.  I am realising when he says no to ANYTHING I have to say I am getting on the edge with him, wonder what is going on with me, it’s a little frustrating.  HOw do you ladies deal with rejection especially from your spouse or SO?

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      Denise Richardson wrote Jan 26, 2011
    • Open communication is the best medicine for a fix such as this just as Eva has said over look it because of his appointed timeto rise for the drive, but if this is soemthing you’ve been dealing with over time you need to set asaid some time and speak with him on this matter, he needs to know how you feel and where you stand with the issue, he may not even be aware he is doing this to you. Most times men are so closed minded on certain things and not realize how they can make us feel, (left out) at times so find some time to speak with him about this, blessings to you my friend.hearthappy




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      Brimstone1968 wrote Jan 26, 2011
    • Thanks Eva and Niecy for your responses, greatly appreicated.




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      Tuliplady wrote Jan 26, 2011
    • I don’t deal well with that sort of rejection.  I know my husband has his reasons, but I tend to take it SOOOOOO personally and then I go have a cry and maybe the next day I realize it’s HIS issues, not mine.  But in the moment, no, I don’t like that rejection AT ALL.




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      Marya1961 wrote Jan 30, 2011
    • I have come to accept rejection in different forms in my life, as there have been instances with either family or friends that has left me asking..“why?“..but as far as hub is concerned, unless he really feels worn out, he rarely dismisses me..so if it continues and you find yourself saying, “why?“...then have a gentle conversation with your man and ask him that question.happy




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      Nita P wrote Jan 24, 2012
    • i have learnt to accept rejection from my husband,  i just try not to get too close to him emotionally




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