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Ladies do you ever catch your guy checking out other women when you are out together? If so, does it bother you and does it make you feel insecure in your relationship?

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      Msj wrote Mar 18, 2011
    • I just smack him LOL!
      He used to but I started giving him the same respect.... he caught on. Now he is like any other man, looks outta the corner of his eye..




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      Jenz ~ wrote Mar 18, 2011
    • LOL

      We joke about stuff like that. It’s all out in the open though- he doesn’t act like a dog. And yes, when the same respect is returned, they dont miss it. {wink}
      Example: Brad Pitt in Legends of the Fall was on the other night n we watched it together. LOL  He said something... LOL!

      One other time he’d commented on a latin chick- in passing I was like, ‘You should date a latin woman..’ just joking around like I didnt even care what he did and he was like, “No way- Im very happy with who I’m with.”

      No insecurities here but if he ever DOES start acting like a ‘dawg’ he’ll get it right back and shape on up. estatic




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      Vikki Hall wrote Mar 18, 2011
    • I’m probably more open about checking other men then he is about women. But then again I have always checked out all people (especially their hair). My hubz is extremely confident in our relationship. Of course he should be he knows how much I love him.




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      Denise Richardson wrote Mar 18, 2011
    • To be honest we both do it, I look at other men and he looks at other women but not to the point of staring them down it is a sutle glance and thats fine, we both give compliments to the opposite sex whenever we feel it is warranted, I don’t mind at all because I know who’s going home with me at the end of the day. And I’ll be the 1st to compliment either sex on whatever if I like something about the attire, the hairstyle, makeup etc... or the scent their wearing thats just me!




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      Jenz ~ wrote Mar 18, 2011
    • Same here Neicy. estatic I do it and I GET it so its all good.
      Hope everyone’s having a great night!
      Im dealing with clients who ar affected in advance by a full moon on its way I think. LORD have mercy.....




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      Cheekymonkey wrote Mar 18, 2011
    • Right with you Niecy!




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      Yana Berlin wrote Mar 18, 2011
    • One of my friends husband always looks and comments (in a nice way) about women that he sees, once I’ve asked her if his behavior bother’s her.

      Her response was:

      “As long as there is no body fluid exchange, I have no issues with it“.

      estaticestaticestaticestatic




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      Cathie Beck wrote Mar 19, 2011
    • I want to be with someone that can be open with me about why a woman is attractive to him and I can be open of why a man is attractive to me, and compare our opinions. This is of course depending on a solid relationship of mutual respect.  

      Cathie




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      Teri Dade wrote Mar 21, 2011
    • It’s the “trying to be inconspicuous looking” that is a red flag. Maybe they try to position themselves so they can continue to look at this other woman without you knowing. But women, C‘mon..we all have that extra sensory and KNOW when our man is looking at another. That’s NOT okay with me.  

      In my 25 years of marriage, my husband has NEVER been one to openly compliment another woman, he gets all wierded out if I even show him a sexy woman from one of my magazines...So, his looking at another woman, only means one thing..




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      Marya1961 wrote Mar 21, 2011
    • Hub glances once in a while, but seems to only look at women that resemble me in some way..that’s a good thing!happy




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