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So, I have a really good friend that still works at old employment. I was her boss but she is a manager. Everytime we talk or txt she brings up job. Asking questions on things she was privy to but I was. Even though I am no longer there I still take my confidential agreement serious. It’s a moral thing I guess now she knows me very well. In fact I’ve told everyone that I am still in contact I do not want to discuss this topic even though they still wk there. Generalization ok but no details!!!! I told her this 4 days ago it must have hurt her feelings because she didn’t contact me again till today.
So we are having a great conversation by txting and up pops a question she KNOWS I won’t answer. I ignored it and continued but again up it pops. Now I just didn’t answer at all. Why would she disrespect me as her friend ( and we are very close) but not when I was her boss?
Why would she think it’s ok now and I’d change who I am?
Mostly how do I tell her and keep the friendship? I’m noticing she’s pretty one sided lately
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