I found out the my husband had a girlfriend that he would not give up. He ended up leaving me and the the kids for a few weeks and moved in with her and one of her 2 kids. After a few weeks, he has moved back home. The apartment is gone and supposedly the girlfriend is out of the picture, but I dont know for sure. We are going to therapy to try to better ourselves individually and jointly. He continually says 1 thing and does another. he has cheated on my many times over the past 14 years because of an ‘addiction‘. I am not so sure we can get thru this. He is the one who is saying that he is not so sure that he can committ to this. I have been crushed and so have my children. I dont know what to do next, where to turn next, how to stand on my own 2 feet, keep my kids strong, staying married, getting divorced, the money involved in all of this. I live in heartache, pain and fear everyday. This has ruined my life and part of my kids life. I am not sure how this can be healed. I dont even know why I want to stay with someone who has done this to me. He is my husband and is the father of my children. I dont know if he ever tells the truth anymore. Everyone seems to know different stories about things. How do I take care of me and my kids and make us ok regardless of whether we stay together or not????? He is very very selfish and not too good at taking responsibility for his actions. I know we need help; hence why we are in therapy. Has anyone been in this situation. Can you offer me any kind of olive branch??????