I have had a bit of a dilemma. My husband had some prostate issues for years and finally had a procedure done (don’t remember what it was called, but involved laser) about a year ago.  He now has absolutely NO sex drive and although I have talked to him about it, he make no attempt to be physically attentive to me anymore.  I know this has to do with his inability to respond physically, but I feel very neglected. I now have a 2-3 times a week date with BOB, but it isn’t the same. Any suggestions?