Why does everyone want to make you feel that if you are a woman you should either 1. Be in a relationship or 2. Be alone. Why cant we just have fun dating. After being married for over 2 decades. I am enjoying myself. My children are grown and now its me time. I am having fun meeting different people. I may get tired but now I am enjoying myself. Is there anyone in my shoes out there that feel the same way or am I unusual?