Why does everyone want to make you feel that if you are a woman you should either 1. Be in a relationship or 2. Be alone.  Why cant we just have fun dating.  After being married for over 2 decades.  I am enjoying myself.  My children are grown and now its me time.  I am having fun meeting different people.  I may get tired but now I am enjoying myself.  Is there anyone in my shoes out there that feel the same way or am I unusual?