After 23 years I have my brother back in my life. What a feeling!!! He had a lot of issues in his life and back in May 2012 I heard his voice for the first time. I cried and cried but I cried because I was looking for something familiar and nothing. You think you would know your own brother no matter what, but time has a way of stealing that from you. However, I saw him for the first time during the 4th of July holiday and wow! He is handsome, strong, has a beautiful smile. It was just a reunion of my sister, my brother and myself. Then he met my kids. We had a wonderful time. Then a couple weeks ago, both my brothers and my sister and I met together for the first time in 23 years. We took lots of pictures and had a wonderful time. We did Busch Gardens, ate dinner, BBQ’d and just caught up. I waited for this day for 23 years and yesterday he called just to say hi!!! OH WHAT THAT DID FOR MY HEART! So if you have someone who has been out of your life for a very long time, don’t worry, the prodigal son always returns sooner or later and when he/she does, it will be a joyous reunion!!!

As we age, it appears many people would rather give up on their love lives and just accept hum drum and ordinary. I prefer not to. I have a wonderful love life that sparks from a deep respect, love and friendship that are only seen in the movies. The completeness of two people who come together and consumate that love is more than just sex, but it is a oneness that comes alive and deeper with each passing day and man more than I have ever dreamed possible. Therefore ladies, if you are not experiencing the best sex of your lives especially at this stage of our lives where most of us are done raising kids and can enjoy more “me” time and “us” time, then look deep inside yourself and say yes! I want that back in my life and then some.  

When I was in my 20s, I was worried about pregnancy and getting caught by my kids. However, as we age we are less inhibited and are more willing to have variety in style, place and time of day. How many of you have done it in an office on top of a desk???? WOW!!! What about the beach on the sand? Hey, I think that the back seat of a car can still be hot and exciting!!!! and the toys.....OOO La La....

So get out there and don’t settle for hum drum but settle for WOW WOW AND WOW!!!