Do you find yourself racking your brain to figure out a way to connect to the men that you meet? Are you looking for a way to attract the attention of QUALITY men?  

Do you want men to CRAVE your company?

You know how men can clam up and close themselves off right when you have something earth shaking to talk about?  I hate that, don't you?

Colleen told me in an email, "I thought he was in to me.  We talked and talked at dinner last week and now he hasn't called. I wonder what I did."

"Tell me about him," I asked her.  Colleen started to tell me the basics, where he was from and what he did for a living, but then she fell back into her list of complaints about him and every other guy who let her down.

Can you relate?  Are you sick of meeting men that seem great and then disappear? There is one thing you can do that will completely fascinate a man and it isn't what you think. Plus, so few women know this secret, you will stand out from the crowd.

When you look into a man's eyes and open your heart, mind and EARS you are on your way.  Yes, it is your EARS that are the key to a man's heart.  Most men are literally STARVING for someone to just Listen to them.

It takes focus and intention to really hear what the man of the moment is talking about.  But?if you choose to do this?.to really Listen to the heart behind the words, you will be a Wonder to him.

Every man has a story or ten to tell.  Even if he has told you the story before, there are still questions you can ask to deepen his experience of being heard.

Mary told me about her experience in an email:

"We went out to celebrate Veteran's Day with a breakfast out.  I had heard his stories many times but on this day, I felt especially moved to ask him again about his Viet Nam war days.  My husband was so engaged with me.  It felt wonderful.  When I listen to my man?really listen, I feel an amazing connection with him.  I wish I would have known this secret years ago!"

It may seem to simple to be true, but what if it works?  Can you afford to not try it out?  Next time a random man crosses your path?.just try it.  Plan on being curious?really curious, open your ears and be prepared to be feel the connection!

I watched Tiger this morning in his news conference.  I couldn't help but predict what I thought he would say.  I was right, he did own up to his indiscretion and made the obligatory comments.

But I was moved by his vulnerability and the level of shame and embarrassment.  I was sad for him.  Sad for his mom.  Sad for Elin and his kids.  Whether or not he and Elin can recover from this, once again, Tiger steps up as a leader and takes it on the chin.

He takes responsibility for himself and I wish him all the best in his search for peace and reconciliation.  Thanks for that Tiger.

What moves me the most is that each of us has something. Everyone of us has something we have done or are doing that could embarrass us if we were in the public eye.  We may not have been unfaithful in such a flagrant way, but we sure have made some HUGE blunders in our private lives.

I hope that Elin and Tiger can find answers to all that has happened.  Whether they are married or not, they are parents of itty bitty kids who need them to recover and restore balance.  True Love can be romantic love and often is.  But True Love is something else.

True Love loves in spite of error. True Love honors growth and change.  True Love teaches that mistakes are not fatal.  True Love sustains during horrible circumstances.

I wish Tiger all the luck in the world.  I was so disappointed in him at first.  Today I am compassionate and send him love and support.  Having to do all of this in the public eye makes a tough situation even worse and I appreciate his words today.  I am still a fan.

Have you been betrayed by someone who you thought was your True Love?

“We are here to help you get what you want.  

And so the process that we move forward is two-fold. Its purpose will help you in the clarification of what you want, and its purpose is to assist you in achieving the vibrational stance that will let you allow what it is that you want.  

And that, in a nut shell, is what Deliberate Creating is: Identifying and allowing. Identifying what you want and then achieving a vibration that will allow what you want to come to you. The work that we see that is mostly your work, however, we have to say this to you bluntly ? your primary work is to lower your level of resistance.  

In most cases, you have done enough wanting to keep yourself busy for twenty or thirty lifetimes. You are not short on wanting. You are not short on the clarity of what you want but you are, most of you, short on vibrationally allowing what it is that you want. Have fun with it and be easy about it.”  

  - Abraham-Hicks ?

12 COMMITMENTS TO RAISE YOUR LOVE VIBRATION
by Jafree Ozwald  

1. I am only doing inspired actions in my life (meaning I'm only going to do that which inspires me!)  

2. I always replace worry with wonder.  

3. I immediately cancel & replace thoughts that arise like I?.“should“, “could“, “would“, “have to“, “must“, “need to” and “I’ve got to“?. and replace them with “I want to“, “I get to“, “I’d like to“, “I’d love to” “I can” "I will" "I am!".  

4. I accept myself, approve and appreciate myself exactly as I am no matter what the situation or experience I'm going through.  

5. I explore each experience in life (especially those I have trouble with) with a gentle, compassionate, conscious childlike curiosity.  

6. I am independent of the good & bad opinions of others.  

7. I remain centered & at peace with myself the world, even when others are not.  

8. I think & speak only positive empowering things about others & about myself in a way they can easily feel & understand.  

9. I exercise, meditate, eat healthy, and get enough sleep at least 6 days a week.  

10. I create only long term fulfilling loving relationships, keeping my heart open to fully experience every person & situation that comes my way.  

11. I have healthy boundaries with the demands of others and can simply & effortlessly say NO when I feel taken advantage of or dis-empowered in any way  

12. I am 100% committed to these amazing life transformational commitments for the next 90 days!

Did a lover disappear without a word?  

Have you watched yourself sabotage your relationship with a really great guy?  

Are you tired of e-harmony, yahoo personals and blind dates?  

Is there a part of you that is so lonely it hurts?

You may have a Love Magnet that is so weak that it’s signal barely registers.  Wouldn’t it be nice to power it up and get some real magic going on for yourself?  You are a manifester.  You have seen the Law of Attraction work over and over and over.  

If Love is out of reach, your Love Magnet can’t be radiating at full force.  There is a Soul Mate out there for you, someone who will gently open your heart and cherish you.  Take control of your future and turn that Love Magnet on full throttle.  You really can attract the Love of Your Life...

Imagine a summer evening, ocean front seating at the city’s hottest new bistro and you looking better than ever with a new outfit?the perfect outfit, a great hair day and a date with the man of your dreams.  

Maybe you get there a little early, just to enjoy the anticipation of it all.  You’ve been ready for hours, anyway.  Feel the breeze on your cheek as you sip that rare pinot.  The crisp linen table cloth a stark contrast to the bamboo table setting.  A single orchid highlighted by the spotlight above sits between you and the empty pillow across the table.  Soak in the moment of anticipation.  A part of you knows exactly what it feels like to be in that moment.  

Your job is to find that part of you and connect to it BEFORE your soul mate comes into your life.  

If you were drawn to the beginning few sentences, you are there.  Being captivated by words is the answer.  Create mini romance novels in your mind.  Your imagination LOVES pictures, emotions and stories.  Once the experience of your inner story gets physical and you can truly feel yourself there?you’ve got it.  

There is only one slight problem?  

If a part of you winces or gets sarcastic when you read something sappy like story, somewhere inside a part of you just might be living in an ancient breakup. It is as if the battle has never ended.  Think about it.  Which relationship or relationships ended badly?  Who did you fall for and never get over?  Why are you waiting?  What needs to change for you to move forward toward your dream?  

Amazing what a little self inquiry can do.  

With these questions unresolved, it is downright painful to think about the empty spot in the bed next to you.  It is easy to feel overwhelmed and hopeless about ever meeting The One.  The good news is this.  As deeply as you ache over some of the hurt, that is how deeply you will feel loved when you resolve those old battle wounds.  

You are creating your world with your thoughts.  Make it the World of your Dreams!  Make peace with those past dramas.  Let them go.  Learn to feel your own fabulous love story before it comes to you.  It is worth every bit of the effort it takes.  How much do you want to be loved and cherished by the perfect man?  Are you willing to really let go and allow True Love in?  

If you believe it, you can achieve it.  What you focus on becomes your reality.  In a heart beat you can change your mindset.  Or can you?  What do YOU think?