Are you wondering where has the love, lust and affection gone? What happened to the candle light dinners, long stem roses, romantic dances and intimate kisses?  

Most of us are so stressed with our daily obligations when the night rolls in who wants to be intimate? Or let’s be serious who has any strength left?  

If you haven’t heard already, everything that is a routine gets boring, and your sex life is no different. The good news, there is always a way to rekindle your passion and light a new flame.  

bq. Seek and you shall find  

1. Start your day with a passionate kiss; get sexy and naughty between the sheets. I know you have to run, the time is ticking the kids are calling, the work is not waiting, but a passionate kiss will keep your partner excited all day. So when you get home, you have unfinished business that you are actually looking forward to.  
2. Forgot to start your day with passion? No problem. Surprise you partner with a nice hot bath, candles and mellow music. Don’t talk about your day unless you won the lottery and would like to share your fortune. Concentrate on each other and reconnect. Think of the topics that were important when you met, chances are they are still important and worth talking about.  
3. Massage is a nice way to relax and unwind. Try massaging each other with aroma oils, and don’t forget to mention how much you missed this time together. Break all the rules, reconnect and enjoy this time together.  
4. How about a movie and no, I’m not talking about a new thriller or new drama that will stress you out and provide zero benefits. How about a sexy movie, doesn’t have to be hard on porn, there are movies that are tastefully made that will put both of you in the mood. Remember sex is a stress buster.  
5. Send your kids to your grandparents. They will enjoy their time, while you arrange for a perfect date.  So many of us forget that it’s nice to be courted, and if our husbands forget, don’t blame him remind him  

Women are so much more intuitive than men when it comes to passion, so we have to be a bit more vocal about our needs, wants and desires.  Don’t be afraid to tell him how you feel and what is missing, chances are he will appreciate your honesty, but remember that man are easily hurt, so devise your message in way where it’s not damaging to his ego.