I have had a day—-not really sure if I should be mad or just let it all go.
My son came to my house with his kids, his girlfriend left him off while she was going to work for 4 hours. The mother of his oldest 2 showed up to see her kids, (he has custody).
I am friends with his ex or really like her mom cause they got married young and she has no real family circle so she is like my child too. This causes no end of grief and problems to his present girlfriend. I have never treated her bad and if she makes him happy that is great too. Anyway, she told him to come to her work when she got off cause it would be less problems than if she were to come here with the other one here. I nicely asked the ex to leave so I could drive them to where she was working. He told her that while we were waiting he was going to put some air in my tire because it seemed low and if she was to get to leave before we got back, one block away, we’d be right back. For whatever reason she told him if him and the children didn’t get in her car and wait then she would leave them with me and he would have no home with her.
Fine!!! I told him to go with her and it wasn’t a problem for me, I can of course pump gas and air. I taught him how.
So, they go home and a few hours later they call and ask if me and the husband can come over? I tell him that my husband went back to work for a couple of hours so probably not today. I heard her in the background yelling, “I told you they wouldn’t come over here to see you or the boys.”
I asked him to explain to her why and he tell her but she goes on to say, “they‘re just too sorry to come over here.”

I think this is just not any way for her to talk about us. I am not going to say anything about it but I really want to tell her that it’s okay—-she can’t stand for my son to have anything to do with me so as long as he is with her then they should stay away. I love my son very much but I don’t really want to cause him any grief with her, that is his family now. I also cannot and will not tell his ex she is never welcome at my home to make the newer woman happy because I did raise her for over half of her life like my own child and she is the mother of two of his three children.  

I don’t really know what I should be right now? Mad or sad