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OK, so I have made it over the hump from the death and burial of my brother, now its time for me to get back to me being and doing me. I have been so out of wack since his illness and now that it is all behind me I can get back to refocusing on me and doing and being me!

I have for a long time put me on the back burner, if it wasn’t for my daughters it was for my g-baby or someone else in my family or even a friend, but now it’s N-E-I-C-Y time.
There are so many things I need to catch up on including me getting busier in ministry, going to that next level as the Holy Spirit of God has said to me, it’s time for me to re-focus.
Life can throw us many curves and deep valley’s but it’s up to us not let it get the best of us. I’m feeling good in my spirit as well as in my life so I’m going to strive to make the best of the rest of my days, and live life to the fullest for tomorrow is not promised to us.

I'm still enjoying many pleasures in life including my online friendships with the women here that I have connected with, I'm enjoying our FRIENDS FROM FAR & NEAR PEN PAL CLUB as well as the TRAVELING BRACELET OF THE SISTERHOOD Fabulously 40 and Beyond has truly become a real part of my life.
I’m feeling good about my job and my marriage relationship, my hubby and I have made a new commitment vow to each other so we are going to take our marriage and renew somethings in it.
I have re-thought on some friendships and has decided that some of them are not worth holding on to so I’m doing a closet sweep of old stuff if it isn’t good for me its going out into the trash this means family members as well.
I live to be happy and, live and let live  and my happiness is very important to me. I have a great relationship with my daughters and g-baby and want to keep it that way and I have committed to do more with them and be more available for them all.

My family (God, hubby, daughters, g-baby) mean the world to me and this is what I will focus on in my life anything outside of that is secondary. In my current state I am content until God says “Go higher”

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