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Just the other day I was sitting and thinking of how precious and important my daughters are to me. I am a very proud mother and thankful that GOD thought enough of me to allow me to birth two of thee most beautiful and smartest women into this world. There is a song title “GIVE ME MY FLOWERS WHILE I LIVE” and an old girlfriend of mine’s mom used to always want me to sing that song to her, but I never knew the melody or the lyrics to it, until a few years after she died I found the sheet music and lyrics to it.
I wanted to suprise my daughters so I went to the florist and got them both a bouquet of pink and red roses with the I LOVE YOU BALLOON and a card to express that I was thinking of them, that I was proud of them and that I loved them it was a just because day. They were so suprised to receive the flowers. I love my girls dearly just as I do my grand daughter, she got treated to a shopping trip and got 2 pairs of new shoes and an outfit.
Life is so short and we don’t know if tomorrow is promised to us, so I’m trying to make each day count by showing as well as telling my children that I love them.
I NEVER want my daughter’s to feel as though their mom didn’t love them as I felt with my own mom even though I’m sure she did she never voiced it or showed it in any form other than the fact that she gave me life. It is so important to love on our children especially in this day and time because the world is so cruel and so much hate is in it. I never want my girls to feel as though they weren’t loved. There father is barely in their life only because he chooses not to be, but I will never walk away from them.
Just as I show them love they give it right back to me and it feels good. We spoil each other and that’s special to me. A lot of people can’t understand my relationship with my daughters we‘re like sisters when we‘re all together and no one believes it when they see us three together they say I’m not their mom but their sister, that too is a blessing to look as though I could be a sister to them, but I take my rightful place as mom.
So as the world turns and we embark on each new day I want to continue to give my daughters their flowers while they live as well as I.
It's just the way I feel about my one and only, my son Adam. I tell him I love him every single day, he's 19 now and I won't stop. I have been blessed that God gave me this precious life to take care of. Blessings.
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Very true. my family are very loving and always tell each other we love them when we end a phone conversation or visit. My son will even tell me on the phone he loves me when he is at college as he understands it is important to say. His dad’s family is opposite - not touchy or speaking about emotions. It took time for him to adapt to my family’s physical display. I only heard his mother say it 3 times.
Neicy I can feel the love you have for your babies! How wonderful for them that they have such a loving mom!
Neicy, my mom and I aren’t close, but I’ve always tried to change that behavior with how I act to my son. Thanks for modeling great parenting for me!
And your girls are STUNNING.
OH Neicy! I can totally relate to the relationship between you and YOUR Mother and it really does make you love yours that much more! God bless you sweetie and keep on lovin’ those babies!
I have the same relationship with my oldest. I was young when I had her so its like we grew up together. We can talk about anything and do too. She is my best friend as well as my daughter.
Very true sometimes we forget and just assume people know they are loved.
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